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05/16/2008 23:36
kylies
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diagnosed with bi polar disorder, 12 months ago, how does everyone else cope with their bi polar
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05/16/2008 23:54
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Welcome, kylies...each has their won way. The first thing is recognizing and accepting you have biplolar disease. Then getting treatment and living a lifestyle that is healthy. It is very treatable. I have it and so does my 25 yr old son...and we both lead normal lives. We have jobs, family, and activities....

How are you doing?

"In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan


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05/18/2008 00:23
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hey norma,

i think i am doing okay, still getting to know the symptoms and dealing with them, it has been very hard on my husband, to deal with.

i accept that i have bi polar, but cant quite get my head around it sometimes, i take about 6 pills a day, so its like a little chemist, because i have never had to take any pills for any length of time.



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05/18/2008 04:16
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kylies...welcome...this is a great place to be for support and information..

My husband had a really rough time with dealing with me (in general) and even after BP diagnosis. I finally took him to my med doc and she took the time to explain the illness to him and even what the medications were suppose to accomplish so he would know what to expect. Also he and I read everything we could get our hands on! Also I went to therapy and at times would take him (and even my kids in) so she could explain things about me and the illness that I never could have.

Sometimes it is a long road to finding the right combination of meds, but like Norma I also live a functioning life with job etc.

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05/18/2008 05:29
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My 16 yr old daughter has recently developed and been diagnosed with this disorder - I need all the help we can get. What can you all tell me. My biggest problem is parenting since the last thing we want is to push her into an explosive episode, but yet as a 16 year old she still needs parenting and has to face confritaional times and consiquences for her actions. How do I approach her and deal with her when she hates that and I see the anger coming????????

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05/18/2008 05:44
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Dear Linnied....my son was diagnosed at 14 and we were lucky enough to have a great hospital where he was diagnosed. They taught coping skills to the patients. He was there for two weeks and during that time the parents and family are brought in to talk about bipolar disease and how to cope. Is there a therapist in your area? For a teenager newly diagnosed I would recommend cognative therapy as well as medicine.

When she is calm explain the situation. And keep your feelings undercontrol. She will pick up on your agitation. Just calm loving guidance. Setting reasonable boundaries for her. She is still a teenager and needs them. When she gets angry give her space...and time to let the anger subside.

It takes a while for the meds to work. Teach her to keep a mood chart...or keep one for her. You will need this for the doctor's visits...record moods, meds, menstural periods, sleep patterns, etc.

and you can PM me anytime. I have been through it and my son is 26 and doing great...

"In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan


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05/18/2008 06:08
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Hey, thanks for the quick responce. What is cognative therapy. She goes to weekly counceling and sees her Psych monthly. She is very functioning and at this point they do not feel she needs inpatient admission. We caught it very early and they say that was one of the best things. She wants the help but being a teen and a teen that doesnt really do much for herself I have to do everything. Make sure she takes her meds., monitor her moods, ....! She does not eat right, or sleep right and trying to get her too creates confritation and she tells me to leave her alone. I know they are important but she wont listen. Summer break will be here soon - I dont know if that is a good thing or bad


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05/18/2008 09:35
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Hi, Kylie and Linnied, welcome to the group, Norma is a great source of information when it comes to both the bipolar disorder and having children with it, there isn't much more I can add but to stay with your medications, and give them a chance.

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