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Hi All, I was very active on this list for a while, and I'd like to be again. But every attempt for the past month or so has been...well, ignored. Is this because the site moves so fast (and my brain moves so slow!), or are my opinions not wanted? I can deal with either answer and wish all of you the best, no matter whether you want me or not. Blessings, Beccaboo Dear Beccaboo, THAT is a very good topic, and your question is one we should perhaps ALL answer--FOR OURSELVES! I personally have posted dozens of topics (more or less) which received no replies, if that's any comfort to you. ...and that doesn't bother me, because: 1) maybe no one understood my post; 2) maybe no one could identify with my post; 3) maybe everyone agreed with it, and thus found nothing to add to it; 4) maybe I didn't "invite" a reply; 5) maybe I didn't need a reply. Maybe, maybe, maybe...! I don't know why I didn't get any replies, and it doesn't really bother me. Oh sure, it's gratifying when someone takes time to reply, but.... Remember (and you can see the numbers on the forums page)that for every reply you get, there are many more folks who have seen your post, and you will never know that you have helped those "silent ones" in some way--and you MUST TRUST that you have helped others, even when they don't acknowledge it. So, if you feel like saying something, SAY it. I can guarantee you that, when no one answers you, SOMEONE is ALWAYS paying attention to you! Okay? We all love you, and, yes we may not always relate to what you have to say. That's the way it goes. I accept it, and my life is a lot more peaceful. After I get my post up, it's out of my control, isn't it? We still love you anyhow. I says my say, and I takes my risks! 
Now, for your own peace of mind, here are links to some of your posts, so that you can see, by and large that no one has really ignored you. 800 MDJ replies mentioning Beccaboo If anyone else feels like you're being ignored on this forum, maybe you also might want to take another look. Keep comin' back, Beccaboo, Okay? With friendship and respect, Jim Post edited by: JR1, at: 05/29/2008 20:45 |
lol I'm going to try this again for the third time. Since I'm unable to work I have become a full time housewife. I don't mind at all, but it can get a little lonely sometimes. I just want to say that since I realized that this group is only a click away and their is so much understanding and compassion I don't feel so all alone.
It's better that way for me and for the bozos on the road. You know what I mean? Jeanne Whew I guess the thrid time is a charm
One thing I was going to say is that I have been really tired latly. Not in the mood to do to much. I'm hoping I can snap out of this soon. Hope to hear from you guys soon...Jeanne 
