Bipolar Support Group

I'm really coming to grips with my condition. I realize that I've done nothing wrong and it's medical. I'm real glad to have the support of a group like this. I am trying for my family to come around and with time I think they will. They have already seen a great change with me since I've started medication.

It is a helpful group. I am glad that you realize that you have a medical problem. It has taken me two decades to get there.

Have a great day.

I wish I had known sooner and with age my theory is that I don't give a tinker's damn what they think or do. I just keep my distance from them all. Distance a lot of distance keeps me free from all of them. My daughter lives closer but she is so busy with her life and two teenagers she only comes when she wants something. Sure the harsh words hurt but look at it this way. The ironic thing we all do it is to try and explain our illness to them. Somewhere in our minds we strive for their approval. That is just life. Had I to do it over I would never mention a single thing to them. I'm lucky that distance can be a wonderful thing. Lots and lots of distance. I have managed to do that.

Auntie

When I was diagnosed my family was pretty shocked about it and all the bad things that I did while Manic.. I asked for their support, and it was a struggle for them to really understand. My father and brother are in denial mostly about my problems, since I think they have similiar issues with undiagnosed BiPolar. My mother on the other hand has been very supportive, and calls me often to see how I am doing and provides encouragement. I live several states away from my family, so I don't really have local support besides my girlfriend. She does a great job helping me deal with my various moods and feelings and provides moral support.

I am fortunate to have family members and a few friends who are really supportive. When I was diagnosed 16 years ago I think my family was relieved that there was finally an answer to what I was going through. It's really good that you are coming to terms with your illness. I still have trouble sometimes because the drugs just don't seem to want to stabilize me anymore. Given some time I'll bet your family will come around, especially if they see the changes that proper medication can bring. Good luck to you.

Hello and welcome Kurdtt. Accepting your condition is a huge hurdle that most of us have had to and still are battling with. This is a great group with a lot of caring people who have experienced similar issues as you. Feel free to post wherever you like.

I've been on lithium for two weeks..It worked better at first than now. Weird they say it works better with time? I don't really care what others think about me - I KNOW I'M A GOOD PERSON! Like others I have done things during mania that I'm not proud of (sleeping with married woman). I don't use my disorder as an excuse but I can change with support and meds. Knowing is half the battle!!