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" just because I have cheated does not mean I don't love my husband or that I don't want him in my life." SAY WHAT???????????? I couldn't agree....LESS!! Gloria Post edited by: morningglory/oldglory, at: 03/14/2008 12:41
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Gloria, Because I don't judge I'm not going to sit here and say I'd peg you as a hypocrite because if you could relate at all to someone who has bipolar you wouldn't go around trashing people for behaviors they have a very difficult time controlling. Maybe someone who has bipolar hurt you. I don't know. I'm sorry if that's the case, but we're not all pigs who don't care about anyone else's feelings. You don't know me so don't tell me I don't love my husband. Have I done hurtful things to him? Sure. We all have hurt someone we care about in one way or another at some point in our lives. It's not always intentional or mean-spirited. Chill. |
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My dear, I have been bipolar for longer than you are old. I have lived it for about 58 years.......I do have my opinions, lol and I do know the disorder. My opinion is, if you love someone....you don't cheat on them...Period...bottom line! I have had 2 husbands...I didn't cheat on either. I never attempted to judge you, I simply disagree with you.... Chill!! You have no idea how I am chilling about you. Gloria Post edited by: morningglory/oldglory, at: 03/14/2008 13:50
"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"
We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.
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Now that that is established. lol You are entitled to your opinion.  I will respectfully agree to disagree with you. Sometimes you can't explain why you do things sometimes, but I believe that doesn't mean your core feelings change. My mom left myself and my sisters one day to run off with some guy. I don't think she loves us any less. |
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Getting a little heated in here folks, Gloria, lovey, be sweet please. "In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan
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And I shall do the same. I think that a core personality is exactly what comes into play here. I don't believe that my disorder has changed that core at all. I don't see any love at all coming from your mother. I see only selfishness. My own mother, enabled my father to sexually molest me, there is no one who sees that as loving....I hope. There are simply people, in my opinion, who are incapable of love. My parents fell into that group. Gloria Post edited by: morningglory/oldglory, at: 03/14/2008 14:08
"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"
We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.
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Cheating obviously is something that evokes a lot of strong emotion. I hope we can be kind to each other while getting our point across...I know I am not a moderator, so please excuse me saying something. If I am making anyone angry please accept my apology. "In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan
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I know norma, I know..( you see how I am chilling I think) lolol You also know this subject is important to me. I simply disagreed with this young lady. You have read some of my posts about this......you have to agree I am being very .....cool! lol Love Gloria Post edited by: morningglory/oldglory, at: 03/14/2008 14:14
"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"
We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.
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Norma, you are a good friend of mine. I could never be mad at you, (for very long) lolol. I really am not trying to be mean. Love Gloria
"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"
We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.
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Hi Everyone, Sometimes topics can be started that bring up strong emotions. We are all here to get support, and share, and give advise. We all have our own values and opinions on issues, that might be brought up. Our ultimute priority is to help eachother find healing, and provide a safe supportive environment for people to share. I know I have expressed my views on this topic, but, those are only my views.I appologize if I have upset anyone.Everyone here has a right to their opinion. But,I would like to ask, that everyone respect eachother, and treat eachother with love and tolerance. Please express your opinions in a kind,respectful, and considerate manner. Thank you soo much, God Bless,Gypsy |
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