jodie1973
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For right now, it is probably a good thing that he moved out. If I were you, I would avoid contact as much as possible, let him figure things out, and you do some thinking about things as well. He needs to get a diagnosis, come to terms with it, get the necessary help, and learn that this isn't in any way your fault. You need to learn that this isn't your fault. Then, reassess your relationship, what the possibilities are (if any), and if you want to pursue the possibilities or not. I myself am currently separated from my bipoar husband, am being told it was all me, he doesn't really have bipolar, he is so happy with his family he never wants to come back. A wise person told me to have patience, and that is the best advice I was given. Don't force anything, or rush to decisions, just give yourself anf your husband time to get it all figured out. What has to be done will come to you, and the thought of it will bring you peace. Hugs, Jodie |
