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05/01/2008 03:50
MMM
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I won't to know if I am wrong in feeling insulted/offended by the following actions. Quick history I am Bipolar w/ aniexty. I am prescripted Litium, Lactimacol, xanax. I admit I stopped taking my lact. last week--side effects were annoying me--yeah yeah yeah everyone's self medicated at least once before.

Incident: We were at the bar celebrating my S/O's birthday. I WAS NOT DRINKING--I was the DD. I got light headed at the bar, asked for a glass of water, woke up in an ambulance. I was being poked, prodded by emts and medics. Things were very confusing, I didn't know where I was, I could hear my S/O yelling outside the ambulance wanting to know what was wrong. The medics asked me about 15 times how much did I have to drink--my response each time was I don't drink, I'm on too many meds. Meds for what--I'm bipolar. She gave a big sigh and her tone of voice changed. She told me she could smell it on my breath--I snapped! Medics released me to the emts and sent me to the hospital. On route-I blacked out again. Woke up to the same lady medic with attitude and saying well I guess I gotta ride with her. She admitted me to the hospital as "possible intoxicated bipolar". I am not a stereotype! Blood work was run asap--found my lithium was only .3 and my potassum level dropped to serious level. Both of which can cause seizure like activity or black outs. (Doc said I sent my body into shock by abrultly stopping the lactimical) Spent 3 days in the hospital on IV drip and heart monitor.

My question is, am I in the right in feeling that I was being judged and dismissed because I was BP? My sister works for the hospital, she knows the director of the medics department. Everyone wants me to send a letter. I had no trace of alcohol in my system!--but she smelled it on my breath-what Bu**S***!

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05/01/2008 05:38
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You are right...it is BU** S***!!!!! And it made me mad to read what happened to you!!!! EMS people are human and their training is to record their own personal observations...sometimes the human element can show a bias in their observations...I wouldn't take it as a judgment on you. Just a bad call on the part of the other person. How are you doing now?
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05/01/2008 05:42
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By the way a lot of people with diabetes run into the same problem because when they need insulin or have too much insulin. They appear to be intoxicated. I would write a letter to the proper authority explaining what happened. I am big on the public understanding bipolar disease is something that is to be treated like any other medical problem people have to deal with....hugs to you, Norma
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05/01/2008 06:23
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I agree. You should have never been treated like that. Shame on them!
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05/01/2008 06:25
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I am feeling okay, a slight headache, little weak--but okay. I have dealt with the diabetes thing with my mom too. Thanks for your take.
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05/01/2008 08:20
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You are COMPLETELY RIGHT! I take offense to people prejudging BP's, or anyone else for that matter. I Love a woman who has BPD, and have many friends here who have BPD. People can be so ignorant.

As far as writing a letter, that's up to you. I don't like to keep too much stuff in my sack, so I'd probably just take it out and forget about it. But if writing a letter helps you get it out of your sack, then by all means do it.

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05/01/2008 11:13
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I work in a place where many of my coworkers prejudge people based on the way they look & I have heard them say to others that someone smelled of alcohol, when, to me, they didn't. There is an elderly woman who works with me & people say she drinks because she takes a lot of Mondays off. Once, they were stating she was drunk at work because of the beligerant way she was acting. I told my boss, something is really wrong with her & she isn't drunk!!! It turned out she was having strokes.

I would write a letter if it had happened to me, because I don't know if someone might receive the wrong treatment based on what they were 'informed' about the patient ahead of time? Does the hospital take the info they receive from others involved or do they have to make their own assessment without additional info? Just wondering what is the usual protocol...



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05/01/2008 13:23
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I am so sorry that happened to you. I have found in this world that being Bipolar and telling someone about it you are definitely sterotyped. It is sad. I have to be careful who I tell. I am afraid of being jugded. Most people will treat you like you have a contagious diesase not like a human being.
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05/01/2008 15:07
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I don't let anyone know I am BP for just that reason. I use tell people in conversations, it was amazing how quickly their manner changed, you could see it in their eyes. Now I tell noone, not even my work knows. This time I was in a situation where that information was mandatory(for lack of better word). I'm not an optimistic thinker, but I hope that someday mental illness isn't looked upon with digust like behavior.
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05/01/2008 15:11
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MMM wrote:

I don't let anyone know I am BP for just that reason. I use tell people in conversations, it was amazing how quickly their manner changed, you could see it in their eyes.

So true so very true

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