bfosterl
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My girlfriend of 5 years bought a house together 2 years ago. We couldn't live together due to her and my depression issue. She has trouble socializing, going grocery shopping, visiting with friends on regular basis, no energy) She has since been diagnosed with bipolar I moved out a year ago, but we remained best friends. 6 weeks ago her grandmother died a slow 2 week death and was her only link to her mother who died of breast cancer 4 years ago years and her dad upped an moved away all within 2 weeks. I was the Pallbearer in her grandmothers funeral and would check in daily while she was with her passing away grandmother. We would talk everyday for the last year Since then she no longer needs to be part of my life or other old friends. She only wants to go out with new friends or ones she used to not care about and stay out till all hours drinking, etc.. 4 nights a week, is hooking up, ignores her business partner because he's to negative, so the business is basically over, wants to start a photgraphy business, wants to give away her dog(to bothersome), Is the "happiest shes ever been", has no time for me, is all better because she's seen a therapist for 5 weeks and now has the tools to deal with her depression/bipolar. Also wants to go off meds. I miss her som much and it hurts to be left behind and Im worried about her. Is she going througha manic stage? How long will it last? Will I ever be important in her life again? Any help would be great!Post edited by: bfosterl, at: 04/29/2008 16:16 |
