Gypsy
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I just wonder how raking her over the coals will help the kids through this? It looks like you are letting your hurt feelings get in the way. Norma is right, that is what lawyers are for. That way it doesn't become a bloody mess. If you spent all that energy that you are spending trying to get her to pay for your hurt, on getting help for you, and healing, than you would be able to get real happiness, not false happiness. Quit worrying about what she is doing, and take care of you. It's really none of your business how she is running her life. She isn't with you anymore. What is the right thing to do? The highest good for everyone in this situation? The anger, and bitterness will just tear you up, and hurt the kids. It isn't their fault that this is happening. They learn from their parent's behavior. What is she really doing to you? Is money that important, or is it a way to get back at her? God Bless,Gypsy
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