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08/16/2009 06:21 PM
VampiricAngel
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Ever notice it's not as talked about as lets say the depressive/manic side? I know I struggled with this the most when I was younger and till this very day I struggle to keep it under control. Usually I'm very successful with that, but there are times when I do crack and my rage takes over. Yes it's normal to get angry or mad or extremely upset I mean we are human and we can't be saints all the time. But it's a different story when the rage lasts weeks and your afraid of yourself because of it. See others feel rage but Bipolar people tend to feel it to the extreme. I do a few things to try to keep it under control...

1.) Tae kwon do

2.)Working out

3.) Writing

4.)Listening to music

5.)reading

6.)play video games

What helps you?

~“Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.”

~“Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength.”

~ August Wilson quotes (American Writer, 1945-2005)


Lamictal 25
Topamax 100mg
Effexor Xr 37 mg
Trazodone 50mg
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08/16/2009 06:37 PM  Top
ExyLexy
ExyLexy
 
Posts: 1532
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I listen to classic rock music that tends to calm me down!

Smoking a cigarette also calms me.

Lexis

Fight for what you love, Not for what you hate.

Lexis

08/17/2009 02:48 AM  Top
ApRiLGeTsAngry77

I listen to music as well. I listen to fast music. I also:

* do a workout

* throw ice cubes in an empty bath tub

* poke or rather stab a balled up pair of socks with a straight pin

* dig my fingernails in my skin ( without breaking skin )

* scratch the area between my nose and lip and feel the sensation

* I also TRY to do deep breathing exercises .


08/17/2009 04:50 AM  Top
harobed
harobed
 
Posts: 1144
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sing, play piano (although that can be painful depending on how angry I am) - but those come well after the initial rage. At first I do use deep breathing, I also try to find solitude and scream and scream and scream - that's why my throat always hurts.

H.

You know it's gonna get you, somewhwere along the line... ~B. Joel

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08/17/2009 05:38 AM  Top
Dit
Dit
 
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My 9 yr old son usually tells me when i'm "loosing it" by raising my voice and start to "yell"; i told him to let me know when mommy starts to yell; anyway i think at times he plays on this. Luckily i don't get "angry" for long periods but when i do i: unfortunately resort to my addiction "smoke a cigarette, eat, deep breath, walk my dog, bit my nails (really bad) and pick my skin around....i have unhealthy coping mechanisms, guess it could be a lot worse i used to drink a lot of alcohol and use drugs but am now coping for several yrs without these things. Wink
Be Still and Know That I Am - Scripture
12-Step Slogans - One Day/Moment at a Time/Just for Today/Let Go & Let God/But By the Grace of God
Live and Let Live/Easy Does It/This Too Shall Pass

"Don't be afraid to cry. It will free your mind of sorrowful thoughts." - Hopi tribe

Bipolar I

Lithium 300 mgs, Lamotrigine 200 mgs, Klonopon (Clonazepam) .05mg more if needed, Clomipramine (Anafranil) 25 mgs, Abilify 5 mgs, Seroquel 25 mgs

Please note that I am not a psychiatrist or psychologist. My opinions are personal only. This site is not intended to be a substitution for professional care, nor is anyone here qualified to make diagnoses.

08/17/2009 07:55 AM  Top
Fcseven
FcsevenPosts: 9
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A long hot shower usually helps me relax.

08/17/2009 08:01 AM  Top
Stellarvore
Stellarvore
 
Posts: 200
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The first thing I usually do is shut off my cell phone so that I don't mistakenly say terrible things to people that I will later regret.

I begin the 12-hour period, which means that I wait 12-24 hours (usually try to sleep on it) before making any big decisions that might be permanent.

In the meantime, I TRY to calm down by doing things like writing angry letters to whatever I'm mad at. I stick these letters in a box, and when the box is full I burn it.

I pull at my eyebrows without knowing it.

I try to take a long shower in the dark.

I usually end up crying. When the RAGE part subsides, I'm in tears.

175mg Lamictal daily
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10mg Focalin IR 3x a day
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30mg Remeron at night

Feed your dreams instead of your nightmares. Whatever we feed, will grow.

08/18/2009 01:54 PM  Top
LeslieI
LeslieI
 
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ALL of my manias nowadays manifest themselves as severe RAGE and it comes on with a vengeance. What do I do?

a) Most importantly do not talk to my Mom. Since I have so few friends she's an easy target

b) Vent on this forum and just about every other one I'm on

c) Read

d) One self destructive thing - I either binge and purge or starve myself.

e) Another self destructive thing - I cut

d and e I'm obviously working on by seeing a therapist. Also, I have YET to find the right "cocktail" but currently I'm giving Lamictal a try

There's no time for us
There's no place for us
What is this thing that builds our dreams yet slips away
From us

Who wants to live forever
Who wants to live forever....?

08/18/2009 04:44 PM  Top
neondreams
neondreams
 
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When I'm in a rage due to rapid cycling or mania, I listen to music, go for a long walk, run on my treadmill, avoid people in general and if I feel as if I'm completely out of control, I'll sleep it off if possible. My pdoc also prescribed Klonopin which I am to take on a PRN basis whenever I feel as if I'm rapid cycling or manic.
Bipolar I with Rapid Cycling

Meds:
Geodon 120mg
Prozac 20mg
Trazodone 100mg
Klonopin .5mg

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