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04/10/2008 06:03
AnnaNAmos
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04/10/2008 09:11
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Anna, so your husband believes he was misdiagnosed? He reads here for personal support or just to see what you are saying?

Are you apologizing to him for something that happened or are you apologizing to him for coming here for support?

I am sorry you are hurting so badly... we are here for you.

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04/10/2008 09:36
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Take care of yourself Anna, and please don't feel bad for seeking support.

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04/10/2008 09:46
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Anna - no matter what his diagnosis your love and support for him can be seen. You have the strength to maintain your life even though he appears not to be a part of it at the moment. I hope that he sees how much you love him and are willing to do whatever it takes to make your realationship work. You are not alone here, we are all in similar situations to various degrees. I have found that getting it off you mind here helps beyond belief. From one BPSO to another - you have found a place of solice.
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04/10/2008 09:51
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Dear Anna, here to give you support in this difficult time. You might want to join us in the co-dependant group...read some of the posts...could help.

hugs, Norma

"In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan


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04/10/2008 11:00
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Oh Anna, I feel for you.

You sound just like I did 2 months ago. Why didn't she love me and see my love for her? I didn't realize it at the time, but that really wasn't her. I don't pretend to think every situation like ours ends in success, but it can happen, and I am hoping it does for you. It did for me, and I feel like the luckiest man alive.

HUGE Hugs for you.

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04/10/2008 11:14
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Being bipolar, I loved people, but, couldn't be there for them. I never stopped loving people. You didn't do anything wrong. It was his choice to go, for whatever reason, he did. It probably had nothing to do with you.

My illness got in the way. I was always frustrated, and felt bad. I would leave people for that reason. If he is reading here he must care. The only way you can help him is by taking care of you. Be good to you. If you don't you wont have anything to give anyone.

God Bless,Gypsy


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04/12/2008 11:17
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04/12/2008 12:30
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Wow, you posted this in two places to make sure hubby would get the message.

As I said in other place...you might want to think of having some therapy to work through this with therapist/doctor who is in the role of doctor patient. That way all safeguards protecting you would be in place.

And might try sending letter directly to hubby just in case he misses this post...hugs, Norma

"In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan


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04/12/2008 18:54
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Hi Anna,

I also would suggest you get help with what is going on with your marriage. It looks like you are angry, and maybe stuck in both worlds.

Hang in there, we are here for you.

God Bless,Gypsy
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