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04/02/2008 16:55
lynn1
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Hi everyone,

last night he broke the window in our living room. I was laying in bed upsatirs TRYING and the key word is trying to wind doen after a hard days work, and after coming home to cook him a home made dinner, and clean the house....he walked through the dooe and was ok But i could tell one of his "moods" was coming. So I served him his dinner cleaned up and took my dinner upstairs and ate it. Then I came back down and started cleaning up the kitchen and then sat on the couch he then said "can u please go upstairs for a while I have reached a new level in this video game and its very frusterating and Im going to get angry". (he says this everyday by the way !!!!) He then like everday proceeds to yell and scream at the tv cuss at the top of his lungs like he always does and if I where to go down there FORGET IT I would get yelled at and sent to our room like a child. So im drifting off to sleep at around 10:30pm and all the sudden I hear a loud crash and i thought oh NO he broke our 48 inch flat screen tv again!!! ( about a yr ago he broke our brand new $5000 tv in anger) and then of course he then SCREAMS My name at the top of his lungs and I say from upstairs "yes...." ( because there is no way in hell im going down there)... then he says "I broke the window" . He still keeps telling me to give him the name and # of a psycologist which I have already emailed him SEVERAL times and Now his new thing is this "when i go to the psycologist u r not going to like what they are going to say,they are going to say that its you that makes me this way and that your are not his great person,and to leave you because its your fault." I can never win....damned if I give him info to help himself damned if I dont either way I dont think he is going....maybe it is me...i just dont know anymore

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04/02/2008 17:39
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Honey, this guy needs to have immediate care. And you need some help also for staying in this situation...this is not normal. It is a dangerous situation....you are a prisoner in your own home.
"In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan


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04/02/2008 20:05
glory
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Are you a damned sadist ???????? Tell me what you did to deserve having to act like a scared rabbit....GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gloria








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We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.




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04/02/2008 20:15
norma
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You heard Gloria and I am with her...Why don't you leave...isn't this the same situation we were discussing the other day...looks like things are getting worse...
"In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan


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04/03/2008 02:57
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I'm with Gloria here, are you liking being treated this way? would you allow your daughter to remain in a situation like this? would you encourage your best friend to remain in something like this? I kinda doubt that you would, if my daughter was being exposed to something even slightly like this I would be in jail for murder, he needs help, you are enabling to him to continue to abuse and assault you, whether or not he's ever laid a hand on you, your being treated as bad or worse than the slaves in this country were, now a days there are too many places to get help to get out from under this, why on Gods green earth are you putting up with it?
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04/03/2008 07:03
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Lynn, I am worried about you. You are in serious danger. I know you love him, but you don't deserve to be treated this way. NO MATTER WHAT. Please go somewhere you are safe. Let us know if you need help getting out.
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04/03/2008 07:17
norma
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Ok LYNN, now you have posted quite a few times about this intolerable situation you are in...and we keep telling you GET HELP...GO TO WOMEN'S SHELTER IN YOUR AREA...GET OUT...IT CAN'T BE ANY PLAINER THAN THAT...Honey, do you think we are going to say anything different. You need some serious help, here....YOU ARE IN DANGER...GET OUT...GET...OUT...GET OUT...NOW
"In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan




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04/03/2008 14:15
Gypsy
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Lynn,

Get out,!!! It's only getting worse. How bad does it have to be??

God Bless,Gypsy
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