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Hurt- I agree on many levels of the ladies that posted above me. The only thing I don't agree with is "once a...always a..." I believe in my heart people can change and will with the right communication and a new respect for eachother. I say 'new' because obviously there was no respect on his part for you. In my manic episodes I desperately wanted the rock-star lifestyle. Both my husband and I partied too much and did things that were less than appropriate. I left. Moved over 14 hours away. Spent two months on the phone crying because we know we are good together. I don't hide behind my BP. I won't lie, I partied hard. Vegas had nothing on me. I came back with a new kind of respect for marriage and for my husband. It can happen. Our mistakes happened over two years ago and our marriage is more solid now than it has ever been. The only thing I am concerned about with you, is that you seem to be getting rejected at the expense of your efforts, consistently. That would raise some red flags for me personally. I hope that it works out for you. Remember in the grand scheme of things you have to look out for yourself. Nobody else will. You have to tell yourself that you are worth more than this, because you are. Hugs, Laurie |
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