A question about alcohol

Now, to my question. I am aware that some BP's cannot use alcohol due to its negative effects on them. I have even read a book that stated that for optimum mood stability you should completely avoid it. I also hear that some with bipolar disorder drink in moderation. So I am very confused as to what to think.

I wouldn't say my husband has an alcohol problem, but when he hangs around with certain friends he has a tendency to overindulge. We hang out with his brothers and their wives, and the guys sometimes get tipsy. I am probably a little hypervigilant about this topic, especially because his father is bipolar and an alcoholic. My husband probably drinks about one night a week, but its almost always to the point of being drunk. So I try to discuss things rationally with him and ask him if he notices any residual effects from the alcohol. The few times I have brought it up he completely shuts down. He will barely discuss this with me. This is because he knows its an issue I have, and he has this really bad problem with conflict. But I want to get through to him! I want him to at least understand the risks he may be taking, but it seems like he doesnt care. So, I am trying to gather information, so I can print some things out and maybe write a letter. That way I can still reach him, but in a very non confrontational or emotional way. Any advice would be appreciated.

GOD BLESS

RED

I am glad you have found us. I am a recovering alky, and got sober, before, I was diagnosed bipolar. I know alcahol made things alot worse for me. I don't think alcahol should be mixed with meds. It can mess with the dosage, and cause instability.

But, you can't convince anyone who wantsa to drink, not to drink. They have to be ready, and willing, and make that decision for themselves. You can look up alcahol, and bipolar meds online. You might be able to find more info on the subject.

Anyway, hang out, there is a lot of support here from bipoars, and those who love them. Feel free to vent, share, and ask questions.