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09/14/2007 15:19
hugabaloou
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I know he has done extremely well with customer service jobs, he is extroverted enough to do well in communicating. He was developmentally delayed, he took until he was 4-5years old to start talking. He has been in special education before. He has a slight studder. He has adult ADD. He always jumps to conclusions without examining the facts. It seems like he says a lot of things now just to hurt me inside, such as, "I am going to go to work one day and not come back. There will be certain times when I won't come back. You need to get used to it now. This will eventually lead to divorce, just you wait and see."

Does his mind realize what these words do to me? I just want to cry all the time.

Also, have you ever seen an adult man get into bizarre behaviors? My husband has the weirdest habit of sitting on the floor, rocking back and forth to music he blares from headphones on his computer. I have never seen an adult do such things.

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09/14/2007 15:26
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in a way yes he does know it hurts but if you are the only person he can be himself with then he is going to vent his frustrations and blame you because you care enough to understand.

But you must find a way to drill it into him thta if he wont seek help and medications your very being can not exisit

do you stay and love or go and keep you sanity that is your choice

it is not just his disorder though is it

it is other woman also that is wrong full stop

it seems and im sorry to say he is doing it to force you to go so the guilt will not be on him because you are finishing it and you will be the one who is blamed

it is your choice hun

noone can make it for you

we can advice and give replys in what we would do but we are not you and we can only imagine the hurt you feel

you will know when the time is right to go hun

you are now at a crossraods in your life

and you must chose your path

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09/14/2007 16:48
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Hi,

I think you deserve a whole lot better than that.

And what are you doing for you?? Gypsy

God Bless,Gypsy


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09/14/2007 16:53
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I'm not doing much for myself anymore.

Just falling apart.

I got myself in to see a marriage counselor on Monday. Money is the issue right now, and a reason why I've not been able to do much intervention to save my marriage.

Hopefully she'll be helpful.

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09/14/2007 20:07
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Hi, Again,

Hopefully, that will be very helpful if not for him, but,hopefully for you. If you don't start taking care of you, you won't have anything left. Your life is worth living on your own,too. You don't have to wrap your life around his ,anymore. You can find your own happiness. He can't do anything to you you don't let him do. There are better things in life than live in a amother persons hell. I hope things get better for you. You deserve it. God bless, Gypsy

God Bless,Gypsy
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02/01/2008 01:07
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This is a late reply--but your husband Gene sounds like he has sociological tendencies and yes, I would advise you to leave him. It;s your choice, just know this: one can not grow a conscience, and one without a conscience could hurt you or even kill you. Listen to the military, they are trying to protect you.
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