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03/24/2008 03:37
carmen33
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Just know that no matter how much he claims it is all about you, it's not, you are not at fault for his moods, behaviors etc.. now it is time for you to decide if this is the way you want to spend the rest of your life.. he has to want to get help, he has to want to get better, and from the sounds of it, he doesn't, it might take you packing your bags and leaving to make him see.
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04/08/2008 21:06
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MBrento said

"Part of my rational response is to tell him that of course no one ELSE picks up on all his wacky behavior, because he's not in intimate relationships with any of them (hopefully). His response to that is that no one "picks up on it" because he's only like that with ME, because I'm difficult and I cause it. "

Are we married to the SAME guy?

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04/08/2008 22:57
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I just read your other post, Dee -- I hope to hell not that we are married to the same guy!!!! Mine sounds like a dream compared to yours. Pleeeeeease get out if you can.

I say this from personal experience -- an IMMEDIATE distancing in situations like this make you feel better instantly ... and also give you a fresh, healthy perspective from which to be able to look at your current situation. It's hard to take that first step, but it's really a lifesaver. M.



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