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Hi all- Tonight I am feeling very depressed and stuck in my situation. My bp husband and I were divorced 2 months ago. When he is manic/aggitated & mean he yelled all kinds of stuff like he can't stand me, he can't wait to get out of this *bl;eeping house, he wants a divorce, doesn't love me anymore, etc. etc. Well now that we ARE divorced and I bought him out, he won't leave. It is getting ridiculous. Some of you posted that I should just put his stuff out in the yard (covered with a tarp to be nice) Well I went to the police station with the court order and they said they will try to get him to move out, but if he won't I have to get the sherriffs officers to get him out (which involves going back to court and paying a lot of filing fees and missing some days of work) Someone told me if I put his stuff out, he can charge me with harrassment, and get a restraining order on me, and get me kicked out of my own house!!! I have done everything I can think of to reclaim my life and get a better life for our child. I begged and pleaded with my ex to go back to a psychiatrist and get meds and counselling...he refused. I could have had him put out last year when he was really raging bad, but I told the police no because I knew he had an upcoming dr appt (before he cancelled out on it) and I hadn't filed for divorce yet, so I still had hopes for my marriage. Well now I wish I had got the restraining order back then. Now I snooped because he was out tonight and I found out that in the past 2 months he has charged like twelve thousand dollars!!! Some of it was furniture for a house he was supposed to move in to and the rest I don't even know on what. He has over 50 boxes of crap all over my house. It is stupid stuff like comics, puzzles, computer games  My friend said to call the fire marshall on him because all those boxes might be considered a fire hazard, but another friend , who is a police officer, saw my house and said believe it or not he has seen worse messes in houses. I can't clean because the boxes are everywhere, and I have a big dog and 2 cats and then animal hair is all over the place. The cats are climbing all over the boxes and knocking some over Meanwhile, he is acting happier than a pig in sh*%. Eating junk food and drinking beer and shopping sprees. I told him if we had sold this house to random strangers, he would have had to move out, why does he think he still has a right to be here?  Post edited by: sky, at: 03/18/2008 21:57 |
