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Hi- Soooo I am very stressed out. My exhusband was supposed to move out in 3 days. I come home from work today and he tells me... "Guess what. I'm not moving this weekend. My place isn't going to be ready till the middle of March." Well ok that is only a couple extra weeks, except for the fact that he finally started packing the other day and he, so far, he still isn't finished,....but he has FORTY BOXES OF JUNK  FORTY!!! piled up all over the house. Puzzles, games, cards, CRAP!!! Because what he does when he is manic is spend money like crazy on anything  I can't even vaccuum. Large boxes are everywhere. He literally had 'stuff' stuffed in 2 attics, garage, in closets, under beds, in dressers instead of his clothes, etc. etc. I looked at all this junk and said to him... "So you still think this is just a hobby?" He said yes. I disagree. I looked at the piles of stuff and thought, well this is why we never went anywhere on our anniversaries, and this is why our living room furniture is 24 and 14 years old. ALL our excess funds have been spent feeding his obsessions and compulsive spending sprees.  We could have put that money away for our child's college.
Instead, it is moldy books, etc. etc. 
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