buhlir926
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Cat, you aren't alone. My husband is a leaver too. Twice he left me and his boys for another woman. This time he filed for divorce. I decided this time that even if he comes back, I need to make sure that the divorce goes through. The reason? I don't want to put my kids through the leaving and coming home and leaving again. It is way, way too hard on them. The are 13 and 6. It might get better for awhile, but I honestly believe that he will leave again and again. Each time it happens it rips another part of my heart out. Why would I continue to put us through this over and over? I wouldn't. I can't. I get weak sometimes and let him sweet talk me into bed - really bad idea, I know. But I am working on toughening up and not doing that anymore. Think about it, Cat, he leaves you every year. Why keep putting yourself and your child through it? Nobody deserves to be treated like that, especially a child. It hurts so bad to have that done to you. Why stay? You sound strong and independent. You deserve better than this and so does your daughter. Stay strong and do what is right for you and for your child. You are in my prayers. |
