hypomania-he called he's fully in an episode

He says I have betryaed him. I don't know how to respond. How do you respond to something that isn't real. I told him it wasn't real but he doesn't believe me.

It is killing me. I am sitting here at 2 am feeling guilty for something that I didn't even do.

Someone please help me to know what to do. I am afraid that if we do get back together that I might laugh at someone's joke and be secretly having an affair in his mind. It feels like emotional abuse.

Please someone, anyone with bipolar please help me to understand and have empathy to this situation instead of feelings of anger for having my integrity put into question for something I didn't do. Anyone please just help.

Is this a recent incident? If yes, things will be back to normal soon. I have experienced similar emotional problems with my husband and I did not have the patience to understand then-in fact he had not been diagnosed then with bipolar and he would constantly blame me for things that I have not done. He would forget about it later. I would be angry and upset and think he would do this on purpose. I understand its difficult--can you ignore it and think its just a passing thought. Thats the only advise I can give from experience. It felt like emotional abuse to me. Anyone else experienced it?

Many things seem to trigger his emotions, I think this time he had to many things at once. He bought a new house, then lost his job so the one thing he could control was me so he did.

We've since spoken and have made some agreements for change. I will try and let everyone know how it goes.

I asked if he was taking his meds, he said yes. Then I asked it more defined. Are you taking them in the morning and at night and everyday. To that he admitted he had not.

We are going to try to see what happens slowly. I asked him to try and find it in his heart to open up more so that I could try and eliviate some of the paranoia. We have created a code word for him for when he is starting to feel paranoid or uncomfortable in social situations. We have created a "safe zone" for me to discuss the situations where I feel like I am having to walk on eggshells.

Hopefully we will make it work.

I think it might be possibly mistrust,paranoia maybe, suspicion. My bipolar sometimes intensifies it.

I believe the illusion, and want to believe,what my mind is telling me. I tend to do it with my fiance.

I get triggered, by something, and project it on him. He may not be doing anything. I was in a situation where I was sitting in a public place one time, and this guy was sitting near by. He had not done anything to me. I cycled about him. When I was at the end of the cycle I was going to kick his ass if he didn't stop doing what ever it was I thought he was doing. It finally past, thank god. I no longer think it as reality. I usually take a break until it passes. So, I don't make any major decisions, while its going on. I hope this helps. I hope he gets help I wouldn't take it personally. Its his sickness.

He has to decide to get help when he's ready. God bless, Gypsy