Hi ChillPill, As always, it's good to hear from you and get an update. Yes, I think a lot of marriages can be unstable and on-again and off-again when it comes to issues of separation and divorce. My husband was like that with me before we separated and divorced. (But that doesn't mean what you're going through will lead to divorce.) After a while I learned not to be so reactive and to see what he said in light of the "big picture." I'm so sorry because I know the back-and-forth can be stressful and confusing. I think the couple's counseling is a super idea. Let the therapist be the heart-transplant surgeon. This way you can focus on being the wife and your own person. Bipolar II, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Panic Attacks, Agoraphobia & PTSD; Alcoholic in recovery since 3/21/07.
Aplenzin 522mg; Pristiq 200mg; Lamictal 400mg; Geodon 160mg; Ativan 1mg TID; Deplin 15mg; Xanax PRN; Metoprol 100mg.
• "Don't give up 5 minutes before the miracle happens."
• "My little dog - a heartbeat at my feet." ~Edith Wharton
• "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." ~Ian MacLaren (Usually mis-attributed to Plato)
• "And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." ~Anais Nin
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