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01/29/2008 04:30
birdie1120
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I was wondering something? Does anyone have a hard time telling people that they have bipolar? I want to know because it is important to me to be honest with people about my illness. I am not ashamed of it. I take care of myself. When things get bad I talk to my fiance about it. I also call my therapist. Most of the people I know accept that I will have some interesting days and bad days. How do you handle talking to others about your illness? I know this a little weird to ask. I feel like I could use some insight for this. Thanks for reading. I hope to see how it is for others.

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01/29/2008 05:15
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Hey there

I have the same problem - Iam not ashamed of it nor proud - but who and how do u tell your boss or who ever you see fit.

it would be a great help if you fundies would help - thats how I see you guys you know so much more than me and u guys have been living with it so much longer.

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01/29/2008 05:38
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This is not a strange question at all. I am not ashamed of my bipolar disorder...HOWEVER, I also don't tell everybody. I had to tell my employers in order to get out of my employment contract. I have also told disability services and my professor at my online university. My husband and I have told a few VERY close friends. Everybody else is told "severe clinical depression."

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01/29/2008 06:19
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im not ashamed of it eyther. i have just told my spouse,grown son. mom and my best friend, a person needs to tell thier md they are under phy care.if a person should happen to ask i guess it would be best to be honest. it's not we look weird or anything to alert others there is something wrong.sometimes we even act better then the world in general. gee it's not like we need to wear a warning sign that says beware im bipolar. i would suggest that you just tell the people that is going to be beneficial to your well-being the whole story.
hi i am a 57 year old married lady. i have a 34 year old son that lives in kanas and i have 3 grandaughters.i have a bibolar disorder and adhd. i have suffered from this since. i was 12 years old.
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01/29/2008 07:17
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I live a very open life, I don't hide the fact that I am a alcoholic/addict nor do I hide the fact that I am bipolar, but I tell on a need to know basis, I don't announce to my boss that I am bipolar, nor do I announce to just everyone and anyone, I've told a couple of people that I work with now, a close person I work with, and a person that I come in contact with on a daily basis, still haven't figured out why I chose to tell her about it, but feel that I was lead too, as she was dealing with a daughter that has the very symptoms that I was having. The close co-worker was told as she might encounter me on one of the days when my tongue gets the best of me and I give someone a piece of my mind.

My family knows, some that are around full time, and others because of the medical fact that they need to know that bipolar is in the family tree, they were also told of the diabetes, sleep apnea, and hidradenitis, all things that can genetically affect others in the family. I didn't know about diabetes being in the family tree till after I was diagnosed, didn't have the answer for the hidradenitis till after diagnosis, sleep apnea, while maybe not genetic could explain why someone snores and give them a idea of what could be going on. Alcoholism and Addiction can be considered genetic, for a person who can go into mania, sometimes it is better that most of their close friends,family and sometimes employers will benefit from knowing as it will help in the support system for when things are going wrong.

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