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Bipolar ForumsGeneral & Supporthas anyone had someone make them feel worthless
10/18/2011 06:11 PM
puppylover
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I am curious if anyone has had another person make you feel like your nothing?

I just got out of a 5 year relationship and during that time I was told on many many ocassions that I wasnt good for anything. It was like evrything I did I was told it wasnt right... even went as far as going 4 plus years without intamacy of any kind and was told that it was my fault as well..very lost and feel I cant still do anything right..afraid to go do anything...Just was wondering

Every one say's they are going to put thier mark on the world....Well I say to heck with that I am going to put a whole in it........


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10/18/2011 06:21 PM  Top
bfly
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For sure... good ole husband... ever consider the emotional abuse support forum? May want to check it out- lots of answers there. Sorry you have experienced that- it sure as hell isn't any fun is it?
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10/18/2011 06:27 PM  Top
puppylover
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No not at all just feel like I cant do anything anymore...TY
Every one say's they are going to put thier mark on the world....Well I say to heck with that I am going to put a whole in it........


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10/18/2011 06:28 PM  Top
puppylover
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Posts: 1991
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Its like its my fault I am bi polar ya sure I definately wanted to feel this way I mean seriously ya know
Every one say's they are going to put thier mark on the world....Well I say to heck with that I am going to put a whole in it........


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10/18/2011 06:45 PM  Top
JustJulie62
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emotional abuse is worse than physical, you cant see the wounds. My heart goes out to....

Being told over and over you are worthless - means you started to believe it. It takes time to rebuild. Be gentle on yourself. You are capable of much more than you believe right now....wishing you strength and courage to fight those demons!

"We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars" - Oscar Wilde

10/18/2011 06:48 PM  Top
puppylover
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Thank you very much I knew I should have come here it always helped in the past and I shouldnt have stayed away so long....TYVM
Every one say's they are going to put thier mark on the world....Well I say to heck with that I am going to put a whole in it........


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10/19/2011 10:22 AM  Top
2ofme
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Yup ... for some 54 years now. My father, some of my older siblings still to date, teachers, former spouse, present spouse, several employers, many potential employers,, and the list is endless.

But, I know better and so do you. We, ALL OF US, are placed on this earth for a purpose. A purpose that no other person can fulfill. Without our presence, their remains a void and the world remains incomplete.

Myself, and many others, feel your pain and empathize with your suffering. See the emotional abuse forums as mentioned above and, if you are in therapy, speak to your therapist about what you are feeling.

Maybe your new mantra can be something like:

"The reason others do not recognize my worth, is because they are too blind by their own self worth"

Peace be with you.

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BAD-2 w/ ME, RC & Hyper-Sexual Tendencies,
MDD, GAD & SAD, PTSD, Paranoia
ADHD/ADD w/ OCD Tendencies,
Adult Child of Abuse,
Substance Abuse Survivor with
Alcoholic Tendencies
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in the "healing process"
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trying to learn to "live again!"
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redefining "good enough"
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personal goal: "LIVE HAPPILY & HAPPILY LIVE!"
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10/19/2011 10:51 AM  Top
Blur
 
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Yeah, today as matter of fact. Getting laid off again. Company swears they Cant afford another drafter, but they will pay the current people time and half which is more than double what I was paid. So yeah im there with you
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