Bipolar Support Group

I'm here since January 2011 while having really difficult time in life...I met people who helped me a lot...People who were from Spouses in Active Relationship group...

Later i got involved in a mess in here that hurt me a lot...Since that time i feel a lot of people who were my friends here are not anymore, i feel like i'm being judged...I feel like most of the people who i was thinking were my friends stick to the guy who made all the mess...in here...

Later my account was bannedc many time , i'm not sure for what reason, which was also very difficult for me to take...

Since that i do not feel the same in here...

I decide to not post much...but even if i did no one is really intrested at all...

I tried to Pm to few people about my problems but there was no answer at all, even short one...

So recently i even gave up on writing PM...

No one cares anymore....

Post edited by: loobiloo, at: 09/28/2011 09:45 AM

You really shouldn't be feeling this way and I'm sorry. I went through a mistaken identity issue when I arrived and it was unsettling so I know a little about what you're going through with that. Again I am sorry and hope you do keep posting and sometimes when I'm not feeling well, I may not answer a pm, or do other things that look like it's the other person's problem when it's actually mine. Please keep that in mind and please keep posting because we do care!!

Soy

Assume- does nothing but make an ass out of You and Me.

How you can make the assumption that no one cares is beyond me. Perhaps you need to reword your posts. Make them understandable to your readers. Perhaps if all our posts posed a question instead of simply venting the bad, we would all feel encouraged to help each other more by giving our opinion. If our opinions mattered.

Edyn, i find your post very upseting and triggering...

And, perhaps, honest?

loobiloo, I care but if you tried to PM and I wasn't at my computer I wouldn't see it. I never log off because I have so many passwords I tend to forget them. Do the PM stay up? No one that I know of has PM'd me. You can always send me a private message, as you have, and I will respond. If for some reason I didn't, I apologize. It's been a rough month.

I'm too new to judge anyone, certainly NOT YOU. XXOO As in life, there are just going to be people you don't jive with OR are sicker than you are...I'm sorry you are feeling this way. There are some folks on here I feel are really negative and project that negativity on to others...so I just don't interact or respond. Naturally, I'm going to bond with some and not others, but in no way am I judging them, I'm just taking care of my own needs...I have enough negativity in my real life!

HUGS! Don't let a few bad apples sour your pie! From the posts I have read, you sound like a sweetie pie to me. Julie

When I first joined I posted a topic about how to me it seems most people suffering from BP had traumatic or dysfunctional childhoods. Not ONE person responded, and I thought that odd. Then I realized that maybe it was because I was new and/or that subject was scary for them, or maybe they had nothing to say. Sometimes I don't respond to posts because I can't relate and/or I don't feel I have anything to say that might help them...doesn't mean I don't care.

Edyn...No, not at all...It's just your opinion that i believe you stick to anyone ...not knowing even a person...judging...If you are not able to understand my post...sorry...but i'm not going to change them because of you...Am i allowed to vent bad if i feel like it...?YES I AM....

Post edited by: loobiloo, at: 09/28/2011 10:55 AM

Then don't expect others to comment on your vent. Nice how you feel the right to judge the judger. Does this not make us one in the same? I'm just saying, don't expect constructive comments on a vent, tis all. I give my opinion, and that's what it is. MY OPINION. If you don't like it. Ignore it. No one says you have to take my opinion as the be all and end all. You have your own opinions, use them. Besides, If I wanted a support group where people could get to know me, I would be with a support group with real flesh and blood humans, not words on a page. This is where I gather ideas, tools if you may, to help myself. A sounding board to throw up my ideas and experiences upon to hear what others have to say about them. Do I care if you don't like me? Not at all. But I will continue to post MY OPINION where I feel I need to. You can bet on the fact most people won't agree with what I have to say. Does this bother me? Not particularly. Words on a page, words on a page.

Post edited by: Edyn, at: 09/28/2011 11:08 AM

Edyn and loobiloo, lets please stop this bickering. You both have rights to say how you feel and thats just what you've both done in the above posts back and forth.

It is free speech here, as long as we don't 'attack characters or each other'.

Lets get back to the original post, and let others continue to post,

edyn youve said your piece, thank you.

I agree with Dit. There is so much hatred and discord in the world, let's let MDJ be one of those few places that offers comfort and sanctuary without judgement. We can only agree to disagree, and respect everyone who crosses our paths here.

Love and hugs to all, Ally