linkydoo
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Ok well fist don't cut. I mean you shouldn't but who am I to talk I do it. Just breathe. One deep breath at a time. You can do this. You can get through this. Does he have voice mail? If so call him one more time leave him a message apologizing for what you are sorry for.(one time so you are not smothering him he might just need space. If you want to talk and have support til her calls you, you have us we are here) Tell him (not yelling, calm voice)how you felt when you were trying to talk to him and he went out in the garage doing what he did and try to explain if you can why you did what you did tell him you were hurt and acted in the heat of the moment and that you are going to work on your actions if he will work on his (maybe together.) I understand why you got upset you wanted to talk and have support and he wasn't there. Maybe that isn't right but that is what it sounds like. Just tell him. People need to be careful when they try to tell you how to parent your kids. It can be a very touchy situation or conversation to have. I hope this helps and makes some sense. Hugs and breathe Linky Post edited by: linkydoo, at: 11/03/2008 12:18 "In this world, a look can hurt and a word can crush. Intimate lovers can become enemies, and marriage a battlefield."
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