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Hello schmu I am going through this same thing right now. My wife that I love with all my heart and soul just woke up one day and told me she did not love me. Said she didn't feel like she ever really had. So I know how you feel. We had been the happest couple up till that day. She packed a bag and has been at her moms for the past 2 months. She will not talk to me unless she needs something. I was able to convince her to go see someone and she has now been diagnosed with Bipolar. She says she does not want to treat me this way but she can't help the way she feels. She says she does not want to feel this way but she just does. She says she wants to love me but she just doesn't. All in all things have been a rollercoaster for the past 3 months and I have done everything I can think of to help her and to show her how much I love her but it has done no good. I am to the point now where I think the only thing I can do is let go and move on with my life. It hurts like heck to think about walking away but she says she can't be with me anymore and I just can't keep going through this. I don't know what to tell you to do. Maybe read some of my other posts and then you will see what I have done and tried to do to fix things. You will maybe see what has brought me to this point. Why I am thinking I just have to let go and move on. The kicker with my story is that we have only been married 4 months. My first marriage and I truely beleived it would be my only one. Well even if this one ends it will be my only one. I will never put myself in this place agian. |
I have set things that must be met in order for me to stay. Sticking with his meds/treatment is one of them. I know how you feel, it breaks my heart everytime my SO does this to me. I told him the last time this happened in January that if he asks me to leave again, I WILL NOT come back. I have to stick to that, even though it will tear me up. Luckily, there are so many great people here to support me if that does happen. We are here for you too. Only you can decide what is best for You and your kids. Keep talking, it helps
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