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Bipolar ForumsGeneral & SupportDeveloping a healthy attitude
08/07/2008 07:31 AM
Dreux
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I know I posted these a while back, but feel some of the newer members need to read them.

Tips for developing a Healthy attitude!

Be honest and realistic. Do not base your attitude on thinking things are worse than they are or better than they are.

Make sure you know the truth. Get accurate information about Bipolar disorder.

Stay in the present. Don’t make things worse imagining a future with pain, disability or loss.

Accept your situation, but don’t overly identify with it. Bipolar may be part of your life, but that doesn’t mean it should control your life.

Maintain your perspective. Focus on something that brings peace, joy, laughter and meaning.

Watch your words. If you hear yourself talking negatively, substitute positive phrases. Say, ”I will find a way to live with Bipolar”, rather than “Bipolar is ruining my life.”

Try to relax. Tell yourself that difficult moments will pass.

Visualize health, not illness. Visualization is a powerful tool for self transformation.

Practice gratitude. Make it a habit to find things for which you are grateful.

Learn what you can control and what you cannot. There are things you cannot control, such as the fact that you have Bipolar. However there are things you can control, such as your attitude and what you say to yourself about having Bipolar.

Learn from Bipolar. Ask yourself what Bipolar can teach you about living.

Get support. Being with others who are dealing with the same issues can bring encouragement and hope.

Help others. When it comes to stepping outside ourselves, probably nothing works as well as reaching out to others who are struggling.

I feel like these are good tips in general, they fit most of lifes situations.

Life is a journey, not a destination.

Laissez les bons temps rouler.

Each day is a new canvas to paint upon. Make sure your picture is full of life and happiness, and at the end of the day you don't look at it and wish you had painted something different.
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08/07/2008 07:46 AM  Top
jritchie
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Thanks Dreux; those are great. Thanks for posting them again, I hadn't seen them Smile
They call me Jrock :)

I'm still alive....Pearl Jam

Bipolar 1

Trileptal 1200 mg
Klonopin .5 mg up to 4 times per day
Lamictal
Wellbutrin
Singular (for allergies)

08/07/2008 08:04 AM  Top
phantomgirl

These are sooooooo true. I think, if I may, I should print these out and stick 'em on my fridge.

Thanks for sharing! Smile


08/07/2008 08:25 AM  Top
norma
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Dreux...you are such an inspiration to this forum. Thanks for posting this, I put a sticky on it so people will be able to find it easily.
Comments made by me are from my own experience and they are my opinion alone, whose intent is only to share that opinion and not to give medical advice nor discourage from seeking medical help. Medicine is best left to the professionals that is what they do.
"In the time of your life, live-so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but, shall smile to the infinite variety and mystery of it." William Saroyan
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08/09/2008 07:13 AM  Top
Arual001
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I think living in the moment is key... but hard to do mindfulness it is called i ran accross a few cool videos about this on this site but do not know where i am still figuring out how to best get around the site. This is so difficult... mindfulness i mean, i think i spend too much time feeling ashamed of things i've done in the past and dread over the inevitable pain in the future i must tell myself to stop, take a breath, and go wash the dishes or something like that
Everywhere you go, there you are.

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08/09/2008 08:03 AM  Top
bejeweled
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Dreux - this was wonderful!!! I especially love the last one helping others. That is so true. It is the fastest way to get out of your own shit. Thank you!
You have delighted us long enough.
- Jane Austen

Do or do not. There is no try. -YODA

"Someone call the doctor, got a case of love bipolar. Stuck on a roller coster and can't get off this ride."
-Kate Perry Hot & Cold.

08/09/2008 08:09 AM  Top
zinnia
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dreux-how did i ever miss these? they are wonderful statements...words to live by. thank you so much.
Well behaved women rarely make history.

Thou canst not disturb a flower without the troubling of a star...from "Troubling a Star", by Madelaine L'Engle...we all affect one another by our words and actions...it is our choice whether to do so purposefully and positively, or carelessly and hurtfully...may we all bring to one another the peace that we seek...

"if you want others to be happy, practice compassion. if you want to be happy, practice compassion" the Dahli Laama
Peace-
Zinnia

08/11/2008 07:42 AM  Top
percussion62
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Smile

Thanks--Exactly what I need to hear!!


08/13/2008 12:16 PM  Top
kaj4life
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they are grest words now i gotta learn how to use them in my own personal life...cause right now it feels like its falling apart and i am so damn down its awfull

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08/13/2008 01:40 PM  Top
pirateprincess421
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Very good words to live by. Thanks
Princess Lainey

Lamictal 200mg
Risperdal 1.5mg
Trazadon 100mg
Klonapin 1mg
Lexapro 20mg
Wellbutrin 150mg

PS...I hate the snow

Please note that I am not a psychiatrist or psychologist. My opinions are personal only. This site is not intended to be a substitution for professional care, nor is anyone here qualified to make diagnoses.
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