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i was seriously young when i fell in love (14). i had self esteem issues and also the bipolar started becoming severe, so my boyfriend (wow, it's funny to think of him that way!) and i had all sorts of fights, and jealousies, and insecurities. when i moved out of state, he broke up with me, but we maintained a friendship. after a year or so, he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me, but i told him that i didn't want to be with him because i would only hurt him. i think this was partly adolescent melodrama and partly BP. after another 3 years of him trying to convince me that he loved me, i finally realized that it was true. he was the only person in the world (besides my mum) who would always forgive me. so i called him up and told him to come to the state i was in and a month later we got married! but i believe those years apart were critical for us as individuals. we needed to find our own way for a while. purdue, she may need some time alone or even another relationship, but be there for her, be her friend if she doesn't want more, and she may come to realize that you truly care for her. good luck, your love is beautiful! |
