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Right on, Sista!!! Me too!

Anyway, then women had a hard time with me because I'd get asked with all the stuff I can do for myself why did I need a woman around. If I had to explain it they didn't get it because most had their identity and value as women tied up in what they do and not who they are. They just didn't get it that I'm not interested in what someone can do for me, I'm more interested in what they mean to me. I said it before, I don't think men and women are really all that different. If you burn away all the roles and men developed more of their feminine traits and women developed more of their male traits then what you're left with in needing someone else all boils down to intimacy and love...that's all that's left to need someone for if you can take care of yourself.

I've had several good girl friends that went the same route and they frustrated the hell out of men because they weren't looking for some guy to take care of them, help raise their children or be a meal ticket. We all need to be needed, but we should be needed for the right reasons. My .02...again.

Well, I think my female side has emerged enough...I'm gonna go clean a shotgun or watch Walker, Texas Ranger and take some DHEA to get my testosterone levels back up before I start menstruating...I wonder if they make a combination maxi pad and jock strap LOL.

Post edited by: lobo, at: 06/10/2008 18:09

I wonder if they make a combination maxi pad and jock strap LOL.<br><br>Post edited by: lobo, at: 06/10/2008 18:09

lol, Don't know if they make one, but the new maxi pads will stick to just about anything.. Lobo, you sound like you are going to make some woman a great catch, they don't know what they are missing if they don't go for you..

I use to sit in a bar back in my wild child days, and watch all these men go for the bimbo's.. and then they would sit and complain to me over their broken hearts and how they could not even get a date out of some of them, would ask the guy what his qualifications were on a woman, he'd read off this list, and I would in my head start checking off all the traits that he would be asking for that I had.. had everyone of them plus more to offer, like brains.

Yet for some reason, I'd be there drinking and they would be chasing the double DD's.. maybe it was the fact all I had was C's.????

I use to sit in a bar back in my wild child days, and watch all these men go for the bimbo's..

.. maybe it was the fact all I had was C's.????

Yeah, when I used to go to bars some girls would want to buy me a drink. I'd just tell 'em no thanks, but I'll take the $5 .

BTW, what does guys in bars looking at bimbos have to do with what grades you made in high school???

There are two kinds of guys in the world when it comes to boobs; those that like 'em because of how they feel to them and those that like 'em for how they feel to her. With the second one it doesn't matter if she made A's or D's in school LOL.

Post edited by: lobo, at: 06/11/2008 19:32

Lonely people trying to connect. Been there for a while after my divorce a few times, I even went into a bar by myself once. I always went with groups. My friends play in a band and I would go to see them play.