Here is my story.. 3 months ago I had a husband that will never leave me, a dog, a home, etc.
Week 1: I get into a small arguement about the rent and then my husband tells me he's not sure if he wants to be me married to me anymore. That I am to anxious, jealous, depressed, make accusations, etc.
I did everything I could to show him I love him. We agreed that we would always try marriage counseling before we got divorced so I made an appointment. We went to the first appointment and he came home and packed and left. He was gone for 4 days and then came back to talk to me about the bills. We decided to be roommates. I then discovered that he had called a girl that I was always felt was after him right after he left me. When confronted he said he wanted to ask her what he should do. (btw this girl is 10 years younger and not married) When I told him he hurt me he moved out AGAIN 2 days later. He rages with anger when I calmly try to tell him that he hurt me. He tells me it's harder for him to get divorce than it is for me because he has to live with whether or not he made the right choice.
Week 2: I had surgery that monday. He was supposed to still be there for me and take care of the house even though we were splitting up. He's so mad that I confronted him. He doesn't come to my surgery or even call to see if I lived through it. Then he adds his exgirlfriend from high school on his facebook and deletes me. He texts me to tell me he is taking a small amount of money out of our account. 4 days later he comes over to "check on me" and bring bill money. He was there for all of 4 minutes.
He gets a $220 speeding ticket on the highway.
Week 3: He texts me to tell me he needs me to sign divorce paperwork the following morning. I told him to drop it off. I told him it wasn't right and that he needed to fix it before I will sign it. He is mad.
That weekend I noticed he was in my house to take a shower while I was gone. Then he says he's going out of town to teach (even though schools were out the week before) and he can't come get these *so important a week ago* papers for a few days.
Week 4: He's pushing me to move out of my house so he can move back in. He picks up the divorce papers. NO Other contacts.
Week 5: I move out of the house. He states I can take what I want as long as I don't take the tv or the bed.
He moves in the next day. A few days later he moves in the ex girlfriend that he hasn't seen since high school. He's only been "talking to her" for a 3 weeks now. He loves her. He has totally replaced me. She's sleeping in the bed he made love to me in.
We would have been married 8 years next month.
His dad and sister are both violently bipolar. I feel that he is having a manic episode as he's never been so impulsive before. I'd like your opinions and thoughts. Sorry this was so long but all of this information is important to know. Thanks in advance. Looking forward to making some supportive associations on here.
