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06/18/2012 02:39 PM
patientlove
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Hey everyone, sorry I've been gone so long! It's hard to find time with the baby. I have a quick question.

Has anyone done a background check on someone? DO you have a recommendation on a good site? And can the person find out that you did a check on them?

Need to check on the OW bc she's around my little one. Sad

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06/18/2012 02:42 PM  Top
wifeonbpexpress
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Does your state have a site for court records which are public? Ours is called CCAP. Google her name also if you haven't already.
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06/18/2012 03:03 PM  Top
patientlove
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I have googled her, just got the basic stuff like social sites, but they're private. I don't.know about the state. I tried searching but couldn't find it. I'll look again.

I also don't know her exact birthdate.

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06/18/2012 04:55 PM  Top
marriedtoit
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Try, as a start:

records.txdps.state.tx.us

You might want to hire a private detective to do a more thorough check.

All of my advice is based on experience and reading. I am not a medical doctor, and have never even played one on TV.

06/18/2012 05:05 PM  Top
patientlove
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Thanks, married.
Love is patient; love is kind... It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things (1 Corinthians 13: 4-7).

06/18/2012 07:44 PM  Top
chelle005
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In my state it does not matter who the father lets the child see as long as they did not sexually abuse that particular child.It is ok though if it was a different child. Kind of stinks doesn't it.More then kind of. Guess i am lucky he does not want to see them.

06/18/2012 09:24 PM  Top
marriedtoit
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Chelle, I think that is the case in many states! Nonetheless, I think a background check might assure you, Patient, that this Skank is not a bank robber or a child molester or a prostitute. (Ho is different from prostitute, IMO.)
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06/19/2012 07:09 PM  Top
patientlove
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Yeah, I think it's mainly sexual crime, but I might as well find out what I can. I know she's not a prostitute. She had a respectable job & good education (sans moral education, of course). I'd rather be safe than sorry.
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06/19/2012 07:58 PM  Top
livinginablender
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hello PL

most states have web sites t

that list child sex offenders in the area.

google

sex offenders and the name of your county

follow the links.


06/20/2012 07:24 AM  Top
patientlove
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Thanks, living. I know she's not a sex offender. I am just checking if she has any misdemeanors, stuff to keep in my back pocket, in case I need it to make an argument or a case. Maybe drug or dui. She's probably squeaky clean, though. She's probably only guilty of being a home-wrecking slut.
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