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rainydaysh32 Posts: 201
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Real quick background. My husband never got along with my parents, and they with him, but both tried to be civil for my sake. I love my parents, and they have been huge supporters of me thru everything. My husband has told me multiple times that he doesn't want me to talk to them, doesn't care if he ever sees them again, and says that he hates them. They don't say those things about him, even though they know that he has hurt me, and has BP. So, just know there are issues on both sides, but I do care about my parents very much. So, my mom called while I was getting ready for work. I did not take the call, as I was heading out the door, but hubby asked who it was. I told him that it was my mom, and she probably wanted to chat, and that I would call her back. he got mad and said that I always talk to her when he is not around, and that he doesn't like that I tell her everything. He wants to sit down and talk about it...which means he wants to set the time and amount that I talk to my family. I am sick of it. With everything that he has put me through, I just want him to quit. They live 3000 miles away. I see them maybe once a year....and talk to my mom about 2 or 3 times a week. Am I wrong? Should I give up my family for my husband? Should I let him dictate how much I can talk to them? I have followed him from Iowa, to Alaska, to Oregon, and finally Washington state. We are far removed my any of my family, and he is still concerned about them interferring.... What am I missing? How do I handle this? Thanks, |
he is so VERY wrong. It's all about control. He should think his lucky stars you put up with him!
