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06/24/2011 10:59 PM
behindthemask

Just to review...

Must have symptoms of mania AND depressive states

Mania

At least three of these symptoms:

Increased energy and decreased need for sleep.

Excessive irritability, euphoria, or aggressive behavior.

Increased talkativeness or pressured speech.

Disconnected and racing thoughts.

Impulsive behavior and poor judgment such as spending sprees, erratic driving, or sexual indiscretions.

Inflated self-esteem

Increased goal-directed activities

Distractibility

Depression

For at least two weeks, five or more of these symptoms:

Feeling miserable and sad almost everyday

Losing interest or pleasure in most activities

Feeling anxious or irritable

Having trouble concentrating or remembering

Feeling tired

Feeling guilty

Sleeping too much or too little

Eating too much or too little

Have medically unexplained aches and pains

Abusing alcohol or drugs

Thinking of death or suicide

Bipolar I Disorder is mainly defined by manic or mixed episodes that last at least seven days, or by manic symptoms that are so severe that the person needs immediate hospital care. Usually, the person also has depressive episodes, typically lasting at least two weeks. The symptoms of mania or depression must be a major change from the person's normal behavior.

Bipolar II Disorder is defined by a pattern of depressive episodes shifting back and forth with hypomanic episodes, but no full-blown manic or mixed episodes.

Bipolar Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (BP-NOS) is diagnosed when a person has symptoms of the illness that do not meet diagnostic criteria for either bipolar I or II. The symptoms may not last long enough, or the person may have too few symptoms, to be diagnosed with bipolar I or II. However, the symptoms are clearly out of the person's normal range of behavior.

Cyclothymic Disorder, or Cyclothymia, is a mild form of bipolar disorder. People who have cyclothymia have episodes of hypomania that shift back and forth with mild depression for at least two years. However, the symptoms do not meet the diagnostic requirements for any other type of bipolar disorder.

Some people may be diagnosed with rapid-cycling bipolar disorder. This is when a person has four or more episodes of major depression, mania, hypomania, or mixed symptoms within a year.

2 Some people experience more than one episode in a week, or even within one day. Rapid cycling seems to be more common in people who have severe bipolar disorder and may be more common in people who have their first episode at a younger age. One study found that people with rapid cycling had their first episode about four years earlier, during mid to late teen years, than people without rapid cycling bipolar disorder.

3 Rapid cycling affects more women than men.

4 Bipolar disorder tends to worsen if it is not treated. Over time, a person may suffer more frequent and more severe episodes than when the illness first appeared.

5 Also, delays in getting the correct diagnosis and treatment make a person more likely to experience personal, social, and work-related problems.

6 Proper diagnosis and treatment helps people with bipolar disorder lead healthy and productive lives. In most cases, treatment can help reduce the frequency and severity of episodes.

(Added more info from the NIMH site)

Post edited by: behindthemask, at: 07/01/2011 05:27 AM

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06/24/2011 11:39 PM  Top
WARHORSE
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BTM: Does calling your wife a b****, a c*** or a w**** count?Tongue
"Well I won't back down
No I won't back down
You can stand me up at the gates of Hell
But I won't back down

No I'll stand my ground
Won't be turned around
And I'll keep this world from dragging me down
Gonna stand my ground
And I won't back down"

=Tom Petty and Jeff Lynne

06/24/2011 11:50 PM  Top
marriedtoit
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Behindthemask....the key is BOTH. For a person to be diagnosed as having bipolar disorder they have to have had the manic behaviors AND the depressive ones.
All of my advice is based on experience and reading. I am not a medical doctor, and have never even played one on TV.

06/25/2011 07:50 AM  Top
behindthemask

@WH: I think that does count,, but if there aren't depressive issues,, than it may just be flat out abuse.

http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bipolar-spouses- discussions/general-support/2835914-when-is-it-abuse

@2it: Thx for clarifying.... I edited it to state that!! Very true,, or it may be either just depression or anxiety or other issues. Of course, see a pdoc to determine for sure what's going on, this is just a prelim checklist Smile

Post edited by: behindthemask, at: 06/25/2011 07:50 AM


06/25/2011 12:40 PM  Top
Catbaloo
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@Warhorse: IMO, calling your wife any of those names constitutes abuse, bipolar disorder or not. Having BP disorder is not a license to abuse people, especially the people who love you.

Maybe that should be a rule: Thou shalt not call your wife or SO names, no matter how irritable you are.

My opinions are just opinions, and should be taken as such. I am not an expert on medicines or BP disorder.

Previous discussions I participated in:
Really
my first pleed for help
lithium and alcohol...

06/25/2011 12:53 PM  Top
behindthemask

Amen Cat. True true.

06/25/2011 01:15 PM  Top
WARHORSE
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Cat: That's why it's now 'Rule' #6: You will treat me with respect at all times, and no longer call me a b****, a c*** or a whore.
"Well I won't back down
No I won't back down
You can stand me up at the gates of Hell
But I won't back down

No I'll stand my ground
Won't be turned around
And I'll keep this world from dragging me down
Gonna stand my ground
And I won't back down"

=Tom Petty and Jeff Lynne

06/25/2011 02:25 PM  Top
behindthemask

Sad that that even has to be a rule,, huh? NOBODY deserves to be talked to that way, I damn sure am not gonna take that anymore... setting my boundaries!!

06/25/2011 06:37 PM  Top
Ninra
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My exhusband was good at breaking Rule #6 but I left him in 2001.

I couldnt even imagine my SO talking to me like that, I would faint. Although once in a blue moon he refers to his mom or the mother of his children as being a *b or the childrens mother once or so a year deserves (IMO) the c**** label. Shes a piece of work, full on fake life online, total hoochy/sailormouth/ in real life but shes somehow smart and crafty at the same time. We are never within eyesight of eachother because of her behavior in the past.

im rambling lol

I live in my own little world, but its okay, they know me here. -unknown

07/01/2011 12:29 AM  Top
hikkira
 
Posts: 81
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Yep...my ex has all of that and rule #6. Yep, he left and yep he'll be back when he gets to the depressed stage or if he wants to use me (fell for it so many times thinking he wanted to talk about us) and just to brag about what he is doing or how good it is.
you cant give up unless fate has spoken.

when life gives you lemons, burn their houses down with the lemons!
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