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michellefaith Posts: 883
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What'd ya'll do this long weekend? Me? Funny you ask. Kids where sick, the vans still out of order waiting for a part and.... My BPSO went out on a whim and traided his new 5 month old 2010 Honda Fit for a used 2006 hyundai accent...no thought put into it. I told him not to I said no...you'll lose money...your upside down in that honda. But he did it anyway losing 2000$ having to roll it into the hyundai loan. WTF he is only saving 70$ a month on the payment and the rate is higher. Lets just say I was pissed all weekend! He bought the Honda while manic...I told him no on that one too...but was fine with it cuz he needed the new car and he works so hard. Fuk  this is not ok. Yes he can bring it back but whats the point he's happy with the used car...doesn't hurt his back like the honda...whatev. Hope ya'll had a good weekend....better then mine at least 
Post edited by: michellefaith, at: 05/31/2011 09:31 AM ...in my opinion.
“If I go up to the heavens, You are there; if I make my bed in the depths, You are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there Your hand will guide me, Your right hand will hold me fast”.
Psalm 139:8-10
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behindthemask
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Hey - back to the real world... back to work, I missed you guys, BPSO is clingy on wknds, I can't get on here much  Mine was okay. I grilled burgers and hot dogs yesterday, we went on a long motorcycle ride, that was the highlight for sure. Oldest basically "ran away " last night. I'm really bummed out about him. Told him he couldn't spend the night (we knew he was at a party... then he left) and he didn't come home all night. I just want to cry. I'm cutting back on my anti-d's and klonopins, but maybe I shouldn't. Been an emotional wreck all weekend. Nothing like a rebellious teenager and a wacky husband. I'm on the pity pot today sorry! Not much of a GL huh? LOL |
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michellefaith Posts: 883
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I'm Sorry BTM Strip his room down to nothing? call the cops and report him as a runaway? Duct tape him to the waterheater? Looks like thats two GL's in the pity pot today. I remember running away when I was 15...it was because of a boy...my mom was going to put me in a "home" for bad girls...whatever that is...but it did scare me. I also remember it was the only time in my life that my mom slaped me across the face, I told her I didn't care ane would run away again as soon as I could...all for a boy LOL Teens are so stupid! ((((HUGS)))) and big Love. ...in my opinion.
“If I go up to the heavens, You are there; if I make my bed in the depths, You are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there Your hand will guide me, Your right hand will hold me fast”.
Psalm 139:8-10
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behindthemask
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LOL I did my share of stupid stuff too, you just don't want your kids to do the same!!! And I'm sorry your kids are sick, and the car situation... I'm trying to sell my son's suv (our old one) he can buy his own car, insurance AND gas if he's gonna be such a butt.... I'm thinking, military academy???? He needs a lot of discipline, to see how good he has it... I'm just in a really pissy mood, sorry, not much good to anyone today, not yet anyways. (((Hugs))) to you too Michelle, Lord knows your hands are full too!!! |
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michellefaith Posts: 883
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I think military academy is a great idea, they make men out of boys. I think our schools and such dumb down our boys...make them sit still and be more like girls. They are told not to play "cops and robbers" "War" or "cowboys and indians" its to violent... http://www.pbs.org/opb/raisingcain/ Boys where ment to grow up and fight dragons....GOd made them this way...the school system sucks it out of them...they are told being "boy" is bad. ...in my opinion.
“If I go up to the heavens, You are there; if I make my bed in the depths, You are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there Your hand will guide me, Your right hand will hold me fast”.
Psalm 139:8-10
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livinginablender Posts: 11428
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Fun filled weekend here too. Holiday weekend full of booze and angry men. Hit the ground running....Friday night. Mayhem. One bridge jumper. (didn't jump) Five DV assist. On between some time with the hot tub man. Fired my program manager Saturday morning... It is the beginning of the week, and it feels like a Thursday. OMG OMG BTM I hate that age. HATE IT. I am thinkin, that spirit of entitlement needs to be smashed. Sell his car. Michelle, that is just the pits. I would be mad as hell too. I would take it back. I have done that s***. I had to go to a Harley Dealership , tell them..hey.. you have my bike here... *oh no mrs. blabla this is not your bike...it is mr bla bla's bike** OH NO mr HD salesman this is a community property state..and THAT IS MY BIKE. NOW. Let's deal. He has no trade in....hummm.... someone gotta do something. **mrs bla bla, you cant do that** I and doin it. Give me my Bike back or you are in possession of stolen property. They did. Then They called mr man, told him he had to come up with $$ on the trade in, as the bike was GONE..LOL mr man took his new bike back. He was Mad mad mad well...huney... no purchases over 100 dollars without agreement. I MEAN IT. I need more coffee. OMG. Post edited by: livinginablender, at: 05/31/2011 10:33 AM |
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Hey! Good to see you Living... wow what a weekend you had, no time off huh? Positive note: the weather was awesome, and we rode the Harley 160 miles... see, we don't have to talk when we ride, we get along great then! LOL My son NEEDS to join the marines, seriously - he has that fight mentality, boredom is NOT GOOD for him. He actually wants to. Wish he could NOW.  go get more coffee... it's good to be back with you guys Post edited by: behindthemask, at: 05/31/2011 10:41 AM |
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livinginablender Posts: 11428
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We had sunshine here too. The combo of the heat and the booze made it a perfect weekend for all kinds of domestic bullshit. FUK I was missing **him** until the FIRST DV call... then..**poof** no more "missin you baby". My little dirty girl is still sitting still.... I hear, someone will be here today to take a look at her...YAY I like the Air Force Idea Better BTM. Maybe the Navy ? i dunno. |
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heck any of them sound good to me... You had a busy DV weekend? Oh yeah I bet they go up in the summer. They do here. My employee had a police scanner we would listen to when he worked with me, summer was always busy... domestically. I hope you get your bike going.. it's a good get away. Allergies are worse now but that's okay. I think this is our problem, thanks for the info Michelle: Use discipline to build character and conscience, not enemies. "Sooner or later, everybody gets into trouble, whether as a result of his impulsivity, his activity level, or just because he's human: it is a normal part of growing up. We believe boys need discipline that is clear, consistent, and not harsh. The best discipline is built on the child's love for adults and his wish to please. If that impulse is respected and cultivated, children will continue to be psychologically accessible through their love and respect. If they are unduly shamed, harshly punished, or encounter excessive adult anger, they will soon react to authority with resistance rather than with a desire to do better." My SO has dealt with him as in the last sentence for years.... we may be seeing some of the fruit of that I'm afraid. Post edited by: behindthemask, at: 05/31/2011 10:52 AM |
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livinginablender Posts: 11428
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I would love to hang out with you all... but i have field work all day. s***. love you c u all later. |
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