Ya - It sucks like no tomorrow and we'll probably never be able to get over it completely especially with kids like many of us do. I just can't let her control my thoughts or reactions anymore. The money thing really drives me crazy!!! She once spent $11,500 on the day after thanksgiving right after I had just paid all the cards off. My fault though cuz I never should have gave her access to them. After filing for divorce she took $55,000 from an equity line and blew that along with racking up an additional $45,000 in credit card debt in less than 6 mnths. And let me tell ya she can fuck the world in no time!! She was stable for 45 days and then boom ! off to the races in a matter of 24 hrs and was texting 4 guys in no time when there wasn't one call over those 45 days.. My question is how retarded are these guys to text her 24/7 and then it all just stops abruptly for 45-60 days??? When she comes a calling again 45-60 days later it appears these guys just pick up right where they left off not thinking anything of it. It's comical to see her call them right after one another and you know that none of them know about the other. One guy has done this with her for over 2 years now and I even asked her "what, does he just sit at home for 45 days starring at the wall waiting for your eventual call"??? Obviously, anyone to do this with her is emotionally challenged or has mental illness themselves or they would cut ties the first time and never look back. Obviously, many guys think from downstairs rather than upstairs but c'mon how many times will they do this. In reality she always picks the ones that are weak and typically have self esteem problems or something. I will tell you though that if she's only talking to one guy and he cuts her off abruptly she will be calling me within an hour to work it out... It really appears that in the last 20 years she hasn't gone a day without some form of intimate/emotional contact with a guy. Post edited by: DEN1972, at: 03/22/2011 09:08 AM |
