Bipolar Spouses Online Support Group

The BP spouse has love at home and they run... it's right in front of them, which is why they always come back. They are trying to run from themselves in reality.

So= you are not BP for feeling perfectly normal and wanting emotional nutrition.

It is totally human to want to feel loved, and to have sex and to feel desired. But I would ask you to take a really deep breath and think about how you will feel about yourself (forget about your BPSO now) if you go out and have a fling. If you think you will be able to do this (have a fling) and feel okay about it, go for it. Why make a fetish of your vows? If they mean nothing to him, why should they mean something to you? But I would urge you to search your heart and ask yourself if you will really feel okay about this. JMO.

You may want to re think this idea.

With the BP person, you may be opening Pandora's box, here, if you decide upon a fling. I know that I would never be forgiven if I consummated my relationship with Jack, then got with someone else. I also have some experience with knowing that if I had someone on the side, he'd get someone on the side.

The relationship is showing no signs of committment or a future. 11 years and not married is already something to wonder about. He is having a relationship online and has cheated with your cousin? I say ditch him. He is not being there for you. You do not need his permission to go and live your life. He is bp and he is cheating. She is upset that you saw the email??? Screwed up, hon. I hope you get yourself free.