my husband is in delial I need help

They cut everything out of their lives and run to another one

Mine is doing the same thing. There is nothing I can do.

That is the hard stuff

He berates me all the time

But when he is good he is oh so good!

But when he is bad he is horrid

You may want to go to a local mental health group and ask questions

I talk to a shrink he said with a bipolar you are NEVER ever right. You will never win it is always loose/loose

There is a book called loving someons with bipolar it may help, but it only will provided he acknowledges he needs it Mine will not acknowledge it and sinks further and further away

I look at it as kind of like a tree bearing fruit. The fruit that someone bears is a reflection of their tree. What comes out of that person is only a reflection of what is inside. Your tree is good and loving so that is your fruit - hold on to that thought. Don't let anyone's else's fruit spoil yours. Hope that helps a little. What is inside of you is yours and yours alone - it is not anyone else's to take away!! I became a silent warrior for myself, you can do the same - stand your ground for yourself, even if you only do it silently - One thing I have found is that I could never win with my dad - he wouldn't let me - he worked very hard at putting me in a no win situation every time. I know it was his illness, but I had to fight for me, and I did and I won! You can do the same. I wish they would all work very hard at recovery, but wishing just doesn't make it happen. You can do more than wish for yourself, you are in control of you, no one else.