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Death is as much a part oflife as birth. Most people are thrilled to see a newborn as he/she makes its arrival into the world. It is an honor also to be with our loved ones when they pass away. We can see it is as powerul a transition as is a birth. Most people dont want to be alone when they pass on. Sitting by our loved one at the bedside we help them make a peaceful sacred end to their physical life. A lot of times people who are dying have a desire to make peace with others. They usually are more honest and real than any other time in their life except birth. You will often find a special bonding if you are there when they die. We can help them prepare for the end by making them as comfortable as possible. We can play their favorite music, read to them, etc. Sometimes just holding their hand is enough. Talk about rituals they might want. Allow yourself to be blessed by being there knowing you were able to bring about a sense of peace. Those who were able to be there and feel good about what they did. If you wernt there , it still can bring you peace if you know what words you had with your loved one before they passed. |
