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03/05/2008 01:25
marymum
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 my friends son is the same age my son would be, and it hurts sometimes to see him, thinging that Daniel will never get to do them. It really hurt clearing out his room must of his cloths to my friend, toys i gave to the hospital. It makes me cry at birthdays and Christmas, but i know that he would not want me to sit crying all the time, so i just keep going on, because i know we will be together again one day.

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03/05/2008 08:22
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 It has always helped me to think, what would he/she want me to do?
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03/05/2008 11:50
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 I agree ilovepetey. I have been doing that a lot today as I make bake things for a family at church that jost lost their 3 yr old son. I am baking a dinner for them in honor of my mom's bday.

It is hard not to want to hold onto everything but we dont have room and our loved one would not want us to be crying all the time.
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03/06/2008 06:47
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 3 years old, oh my GOD how awful. The people who I am still in touch with who have lost children are so changed forever, they have a blank look about them and a sort of dazed face and I can feel their pain which I think has probably helped to give me the fibro. I could never shut myself off from feeling what someone else is feeling, empathy I think its called. You sound so very strong, maybe you don't feel it, but you have such a gift for giving others strength.

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03/10/2008 03:05
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 A couple of years ago my brother made a CD of old family pictures. I was pretty much fine looking at the pictures until I put the sound on. he had 2 songs that were very much my parents on it 1. was Sentimental Journey which was my mother's favorite song and the other was On Top of Old Smokey. when we went on car trips my dad would always lead a sing a long with that. As soon asa I hurd the songs I started crying and couldn't stop
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03/10/2008 07:03
singingangel
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 That is hard to listen tomusic with it. That is what I found with the video my daughter made. The song touches me too much with the pictures. I think I am better able to handle it than before but it still hurts.
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03/10/2008 21:48
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 Leslie,

When you said :The people who I am still in touch with who have lost children are so changed forever, they have a blank look about them and a sort of dazed face and I can feel their pain which I think has probably helped to give me the fibro.: it really made me stop and think omg do I have that look? So I looked in the mirror and at some photos then asked some people I know and thank the good Lord I got a resounding no.For maybe the first few months most will have that look and some others longer, but we dont all have it. And I know personally I did try hard to make the best of this horrible experience and do things in my live with my baby in mind and for him. He may not be here in body but he is always with me in spirit and once parents who have lost a child realize this the blankness goes away.

Sorry but it kinda hurt to see that.

Susie

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03/11/2008 06:02
singingangel
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 I think the other thing that makes me cry is when my sister says the mean things about my mom. I feel like mom cant even speak up for herself now. Yes she did make mistakes but so does everyone. It is time to forgive the mistakes and honor her. She had a lot of good qualities that have made me the woman I am.
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03/13/2008 23:42
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 why is it that people wait for someone to die before they start saying mean things about them, it was the same with my sister-in-law after my died the things she said about her really hurt, and yet my mum was round there most of the time babysitting for them, i got really mad with my brother over this because he would not stand up for her. Like you said they are not here to speak for themself, so i did, and because of that i have not speaken to my sister-in-law for many years. It was so different when her dad died she wanted everyone to say nice things about him, and he was a nice man, but so was my mother a wonderful women, my sister who lives near her does not have much to do with her. It is so upsetting, that familys can act that way.

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03/14/2008 06:56
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 My sister said mean things to my Mom when she was here and now that she's gone and she waited for my Dad to pass before she said mean things about him .She's a very selfish person and so cold hearted about everything .Why be that way and their not here to defend themselves .I'm still dealing with my sis I changed my phone # but, she got that now but,I tried to just get pass what has been said and done and it's too hard to sometimes and esp when she just continues to be rude now my older brother has decided he doesn't want anything to do with her .Well sorry that i have vented on this subject but, thank you all for listening
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