jaime33
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Hi,it is horrible not knowing what took my dad's life, but it definably was not his heart,because he has blood in his eyes, which suggests a stroke-which both his parent's died from,plus we have a history of strokes in his family-all up and died from strokes, who knows he was in the hot Israeli sun all morning from early in the morning,maybe he was predisposed for sun-stroke, maybe he didn't drink enough water, maybe on the beach he didn't drink enough water. BUT his heart was strong, he just went for a physical and the DR> said he was as healthy as a horse. It is possible that he saw something that he wanted my father to go for a test that he never shared with us, not wanting to ruin the vacation-but my mom said he was in unusually good mood-BUT my father was in good health,better health than most 40 yr. olds, he rode his bike every day, walked, eat only healthy food, his main problem was that he stressed out about everything, and he loved too much.The 3 weeks that he was there was like a 2nd Honeymoon for my parents, holding hands,kissing, making love(this my mom told me),in matter of fact they had a very active sex life-and way not-they were 2 healthy 70 yr. olds, who had discovered their soul mates, and were married for 53 years.My father never cheated and loved my mother dearly as well as my mother loving him. They met each other when they were very young, my mom was 16 and Dad was 19, he was in the air force,station in Texas-never had to go to Korea he was always stationed in the ST"s,he lucked out after Texas he asked to go to New Jersey, which is his home state,and were my mom lives,they spoke every night and he saw here every week-end. She was 19 when she married and was a Virgin when they married,hard to believe in this day and age but I believe her-my Dad was the only maan she was every with. I don't know how I got on this topic,my Mother's Virginity, we where talking about Faith. Anyway I have a number of books you might be interested in reading. If you are let me know and I will send you the Titles of the books. Well now that you know all about my father and Mother's early sex life,know that he never cheated on her and he was a handsome man,funny and smart-he had a lot to bring to a relationship-but he loved her so deeply. That is something that he and my husband had in common-both never cheated. I know that Stuart never cheated, something about Jewish Men, they don't stray and they are very loyal, a good attribute, I totally trust him,except for drinking.What can I do to curb it?It drives me crazy. Maybe when he get a better job he will let up on drinking. Today he went for the 1st physical by a Dr. in 7 yrs,he needs to go for blood work too-maybe something will turn up on his blood work,like from his liver-how can a man who drinks ever day have a healthy liver. I'll freak if he does. Well sweetie take care, your friend-jaime |
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