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11/22/2008 02:09 PM
Frenchie
Frenchie
 
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Hello Family!! I just want to say that as you know I am grieving for my mother who passed away about 2 weeks ago. I am to start sessions with a Grief Counsler This Monday.

I don't know what to say except it is good to share the love that you had with your beloved one who passed on. She will always be with me, in my heart, my memories. So find someone you can talk with, about how you are feeling, and share your love with those who support you, even another person who is grieving, who understands. It's good to cry, I still cry, every day,

I love you!Smile

{{{{{{ hugz to all}}}}}

Life is a mystery. It is a gift.
Don't dare miss even a moment of it.
Yesterday was a lesson, today is a prayer,
Tomorrow would mean nothing,
If I can't find you there !
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I AM NOT CERTIFIED TO GIVE ADVICE ON PERSCRIPTION MEDICATION OR TO TELL A PATIENT WHAT TO DO FOR THEIR AILMENTS. HOWEVER AS A CAREGIVER AND YOUR FRIEND...I MAY TELL YOU WHAT MEDS I TAKE AND/OR WHAT I DO FOR THIS OR THAT AILMENT. IT'S ALWAYS BEST TO ASK YOUR DOCTOR, OR PHARMACIST FOR THE BEST AND SAFEST ADVICE!~be well~ and know that somebody cares! (( and in alot of cases: "been there-done that" )) My love, Frenchie

MEDICATIONS I TAKE FOR FIBROMYALGIA, BIPOLAR, ANXIETY, GERD, ADD, NARCOLEPSY and HIGH BP

LYRICA / 3 A DAY
GEODONE/ 2 A DAY
SEROQUEL XR / 1 AT BEDTIME
NUVIGIL / 2 A DAY
NEXIUM 1 A DAY
BUSPAR 15 MG / 4 A DAY
ZOLOFT / 1 A DAY
VERAPAMIL ( Calan ) / 240 / 1 A DAY

( by the way...for those dragging their wagon and beat on their feet...lost in a Fibro-Fog....
TRY " FOG-LIFTER" coffee by Millstone! *grin*)
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11/22/2008 02:33 PM  Top
AndysCandi

Yes, I agree. My mom was in town and we talked about my father alot. We remembered the good times. I think that's they only way we get through the bad times.

Hope you are doing ok.

Hugz,

Ange


11/22/2008 03:14 PM  Top
CarrieUCF84
CarrieUCF84
 
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I certainly agree with you Frenchie. How are things going so far? I am still in a place where its very hard for me to talk about my mother. I barely get a line out before I start to chock up. I come from a very silly and sarcastic family and its very hard to not joke around as much with my father and sister who both seem to be handling much the way I do.

Please let us know what insight your counselor provides. I hope she can provide you some comfort. But you're absolutely right about finding someone to talk to and letting yourself cry. Thanks for the positive post Frenchie!

Take care of yourself!


11/22/2008 08:15 PM  Top
Frenchie
Frenchie
 
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I will tell all of you what insights my grief counselorgives me and I will share with all of you! Smile

I am hanging in there, it hit me pretty hard today as I unpacked a suitcase of valuable possesions that she had for me. One item is believe it or not, A CRYSTAL CANDLESTICK THAT WAS PRESIDENT TAFT'S!

ONE HE KEPT AT HIS BEDSIDE. i EVEN HAVE THE OFFICIAL LETTERS ABOUT IT THAT DADDY RECIEVED BEFORE HE DIED. ooops! didn't mean to look like I was screaming, I'm sorry.

I keep a big stone she painted for me as a child and it sais: I AM YOUR ROCK. And she was, truley she was.

Thanks for your loving support, I will be here often to keep you updated. I love you!!!!!!

Post edited by: Frenchie, at: 11/22/2008 20:16

{{{{{{ hugz to all}}}}}

Life is a mystery. It is a gift.
Don't dare miss even a moment of it.
Yesterday was a lesson, today is a prayer,
Tomorrow would mean nothing,
If I can't find you there !
**********************************************
I AM NOT CERTIFIED TO GIVE ADVICE ON PERSCRIPTION MEDICATION OR TO TELL A PATIENT WHAT TO DO FOR THEIR AILMENTS. HOWEVER AS A CAREGIVER AND YOUR FRIEND...I MAY TELL YOU WHAT MEDS I TAKE AND/OR WHAT I DO FOR THIS OR THAT AILMENT. IT'S ALWAYS BEST TO ASK YOUR DOCTOR, OR PHARMACIST FOR THE BEST AND SAFEST ADVICE!~be well~ and know that somebody cares! (( and in alot of cases: "been there-done that" )) My love, Frenchie

MEDICATIONS I TAKE FOR FIBROMYALGIA, BIPOLAR, ANXIETY, GERD, ADD, NARCOLEPSY and HIGH BP

LYRICA / 3 A DAY
GEODONE/ 2 A DAY
SEROQUEL XR / 1 AT BEDTIME
NUVIGIL / 2 A DAY
NEXIUM 1 A DAY
BUSPAR 15 MG / 4 A DAY
ZOLOFT / 1 A DAY
VERAPAMIL ( Calan ) / 240 / 1 A DAY

( by the way...for those dragging their wagon and beat on their feet...lost in a Fibro-Fog....
TRY " FOG-LIFTER" coffee by Millstone! *grin*)
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