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Bereavement ForumsGeneral & Supporthome from WV funeral, reuniting w/families
11/08/2008 04:54 PM
Frenchie
Frenchie
 
Posts: 1872
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Hello my family. I left last weekend, just got home an hour ago from WestVirginia. I buried my Mother Thursday evening, I sang her two favorite songs at her funeral, and did something else, that I used to do as a child. I wrote her a personal note/poem and drew her my self portrait, folded it up, placed it in her hands and combed her hair back, kissed her forehead my last farewell. Singinging at the funeral was the hardest thing I think I have ever had to do. I had the reading of her Will on Friday, and left this morning. I saw all my families from all sides and reunited with some in a bittersweet meeting, that I have not seen since my teens. I am weary, and spent, so That's all I will go into for now, just wanted y'all to know I am back, it's over, and I LOVE ALL OF YOU.

Grieving with love, Mona

{{{{{{ hugz to all}}}}}

Life is a mystery. It is a gift.
Don't dare miss even a moment of it.
Yesterday was a lesson, today is a prayer,
Tomorrow would mean nothing,
If I can't find you there !
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I AM NOT CERTIFIED TO GIVE ADVICE ON PERSCRIPTION MEDICATION OR TO TELL A PATIENT WHAT TO DO FOR THEIR AILMENTS. HOWEVER AS A CAREGIVER AND YOUR FRIEND...I MAY TELL YOU WHAT MEDS I TAKE AND/OR WHAT I DO FOR THIS OR THAT AILMENT. IT'S ALWAYS BEST TO ASK YOUR DOCTOR, OR PHARMACIST FOR THE BEST AND SAFEST ADVICE!~be well~ and know that somebody cares! (( and in alot of cases: "been there-done that" )) My love, Frenchie

MEDICATIONS I TAKE FOR FIBROMYALGIA, BIPOLAR, ANXIETY, GERD, ADD, NARCOLEPSY and HIGH BP

LYRICA / 3 A DAY
GEODONE/ 2 A DAY
SEROQUEL XR / 1 AT BEDTIME
NUVIGIL / 2 A DAY
NEXIUM 1 A DAY
BUSPAR 15 MG / 4 A DAY
ZOLOFT / 1 A DAY
VERAPAMIL ( Calan ) / 240 / 1 A DAY

( by the way...for those dragging their wagon and beat on their feet...lost in a Fibro-Fog....
TRY " FOG-LIFTER" coffee by Millstone! *grin*)
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11/08/2008 08:10 PM  Top
Peace4Rach
Peace4Rach
 
Posts: 8879
Group Leader

My dear Frenchie, my deepest sympathy. I know how hard it must have been. What a beautiful honor to your mom to sing at her funeral. Your love for her truely echoes in your actions. We are here for you with warm loving hugs. Rachele
Having the courage to walk step by step each day.

May the road rise up to meet you
May the wind always be on your back.
May the sun lie warm upon your face.
And until we meet again,
May the Lord hold you
In the hollow of His hand.

Im loving memory of my mom, 2007: My hero, The Wind Beneath My Wings


Peace4Rach-Bereavement and Depression Group Leader
PS: I am one of you and hurt too. Not a medical doctor, so be sure to check with a professional for medical or expert advice.

11/09/2008 10:45 AM  Top
southern10
southern10
 
Posts: 2150
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Hello Frenchie..My deepest sympathy to you..You mother is resting in peace with the angels! How beautiful to sing at her funeral...Know that we are here for you...((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))
Doing what you love is freedom....loving what you do is happiness. Dont apologize for being patriotic,support the troops-----Toby Keith Please Dont Judge Others To Make Yourself Feel Better!!!!!!


Somedays a Diamond..Somedays a Stone.. Im going on a American Ride with Toby!!!

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11/09/2008 07:42 PM  Top
singingangel

I am so glad you could do that for her Frenchie. It will help you. You are very strong. Rest and let those tears out. You deserve a relaxing day now. We are here for you. Hugs

11/10/2008 05:31 AM  Top
CarrieUCF84
CarrieUCF84
 
Posts: 128
Member

Hi Mona. I can only imagine how tired you must be now. Such an emotional week. Take some time to take care of yourself now and please post us your thoughts are you're ready. We'll be here through the upcoming good and bad weeks. I hope you're able to find some comfort and peace in the days that follow.

Thinking of you,

Carrie


11/10/2008 04:54 PM  Top
brokenheart
brokenheart
 
Posts: 21
Member

Hi Frenchie....

My sincerest condolences to you for the loss of your precious mother. I lost my mother 3 months ago and it still does not seem to be real to me. We had my mother flown to New York to be buried with my beloved baby sister Kelly. So I am sure all the traveling was exhausting as I know it was for me. Just take each day as it is given to you and know that your mother is with you each and every moment. Wow....to be able to sing at your mothers funeral....I am speechless...You are a very strong person. Take care of yourself

((((((((hugs to you))))))))) Lorie


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11/11/2008 07:53 AM  Top
Lilsis
Lilsis
 
Posts: 1581
Senior Member

My sincerest sympathy for you and your family Frenchie. You have been through so much the last several days and the strain on you must be extreme, physically and emotionally. Please find some time for yourself to get rest and try to rejuvenate the physical well being. This strain has its ways of catching up on you. Please find some rest and more importantly reflect on this time with the love for Mom. I am proud of you for singing at the funeral, I can imagine how tough that was. I stood up at sis's funeral and wrote the eulogy and spoke it in her respect, i experienced intense pain and smiles......emotional roller coaster....HUGS to you ....Lilsis
Almost everyone worries about what to say to people who are grieving. But knowing how to listen is much more important.

PLEASE BE AWARE I AM NOT A DOCTOR OR A HEATH PROFESSIONAL I AM A SURVIVOR OF LOSS AND AM HERE TO SHARE AND HELP WHERE AND WHEN I CAN.

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11/11/2008 04:38 PM  Top
seymour7
seymour7Posts: 140
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Frenchie-Im sure you are glad to be home.I think its imp to keep in mind what all your mdjunction friends say-You will be in shock for some time,but there is no time limit on grief.

Know we are here for you anytime.susan

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