http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/feed http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/feed en-us Copyright (C) MDJunction.com. All rights reserved. Thu, 23 May 2013 06:29:41 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10625819-my-dad-passed-away-on-the-28th-march/limitstart/10#10700153 Thank you so much Rachele helps so much Hugs Bobby... Wed, 22 May 2013 09:54:41 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/419770-recoincidences/limitstart/10#10697560 Yes Rachele, paying attention to what is going on around us is key. It can be so easy to miss the signs or doubt ourselves but if we keep an open mind and believe we are able to perceive their presence clearer and stronger. Love and Light x... Tue, 21 May 2013 09:34:11 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10677123-to-the-moms-on-mothers-day-2013#10697292 Thank you Sue, hope your Mother's Day went ok, no it has to be difficult for you also.... Tue, 21 May 2013 07:45:28 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10673300-everything-is-going-wrong#10685798 Jaagan, I'm sorry for the loss of your twin sister and for all you are going through now. I know you feel alone but even if you have just one or two people who are there for you, lean on them as your family. Things are hard it sounds. You might consider talking to a counselor or therapist, to help you sort your feelings out and what may help you to begin to heal and how to go forward. Thinking of you. Share anytime, Rachele... Thu, 16 May 2013 06:26:16 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10678527-bad-day-of-pain#10685792 Firefly, you hit it all right on the head. We all go through pretty much the same feelings. Thanks for sharing it with us. You probably helped a lot of people with your post because I remeember feeling so alone with all the grief feelings. Now they know they can share too.... Thu, 16 May 2013 06:23:14 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10661510-i-hate-this#10682264 Hi Lexie I know how you feel and will be thinking of you I know its so hard but you can get through this grief can we do this together as it will help me get through my grief to Hugs Bobby... Tue, 14 May 2013 16:14:16 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10596666-loss-of-my-spouse-my-best-friend#10672024 Hi Yellowgirl, I was wondering whether you have a good relationship with your first born child who I think would be about 17 now? Maybe you lost contact, any chance of a relationship there? I do wish you well, sounds like you are really having a bad time and not getting any treatment that is helping you. Keep in touch with us here, are hear to listen to you anytime.... Thu, 09 May 2013 18:48:52 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10657410-2-years-today#10663118 thank you =)I was very disappointed that he chose to do drugs and be married to drugs thats why i divorced him.Drugs are such a waste of time and it takes everything away from a person. I have someone in my life im dating that doesnt do drugs and is a very good role model.... Sun, 05 May 2013 17:55:02 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10610526-im-forgeting-everything#10630500 I lost my son 4 years ago. It does seem like things go away. For me I was glad they went away for a while. I was in too much pain to remember anything about him. Things slowly come back to you. Your memories will be happy ones. But the pain never goes away. I am so sorry for your loss. If you'd like to talk about it, PM me. It's so hard to lose a child. Lynnie... Fri, 19 Apr 2013 14:49:13 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/152864-anger/limitstart/10#10620678 I think anger is a normal part of grieving at least it was for me when my son died. My other son still has a lot of anger issues towards the guy that did it. I chose to forgive because it was the only thing I could do without going drazy. What he did tomy son does not deserve my sanity.... Mon, 15 Apr 2013 11:57:00 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10604191-almost-two-years#10620670 I'm sorry for your loss Mommiewinn1. I think you are entitled to know what happened and I hope in time you get those answers. One thing at a time, take care of you and your kids is priority. I know it's painful and stressful to go through all you are. Share anytime. Rachele... Mon, 15 Apr 2013 11:55:12 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/lounge/10590901-welcome-our-new-coleader#10591600 I figured it out! It's in profile settings!... Tue, 02 Apr 2013 06:56:20 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10573405-quilt-from-tough-love#10576412 Angel, I'm terribly sorry for your sudden loss of your daughter. No mom should have to go through this. As a mom myself, it's uncomprehendible to loose a child. My heart breaks for you. Do you have any family or support from friends? A good support group for parents who lost a child and some grief counseling may help you cope with the feelings that hurt so much each day. Feel free to share here. Thinking of you. Rachele... Tue, 26 Mar 2013 06:55:04 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10573159-sad-trying-to-cope#10576404 Hi Vita, I'm really sorry for the tragic loss of your father to suicide. There are so many unanswered questions and thoughts one has when a loved one commits suicide, making the pain and grief harder to bare. I think your Dad wanted to reach out to you, but I don't think his telling you his plan was a way to have you stop him per say. Generally, many who commit the act, have already decided and it's usually a goodbye gesture when they reach out in the way your dad did to you. Anyhow, I know how ... Tue, 26 Mar 2013 06:48:11 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10565558-need-recommendations-people#10576396 I'm sorry for your loss. Not sure of a specific retreat but sometimes church or hospital bereavement groups may have retreat gatherings. It's really hard when you don't have anyone to talk to about your loss. Even with family and friends, it became hard to continue to talk about the pain I felt daily when loosing my mom. I had to find a bereavement group at a church for awhile, then came to look for online bereavment groups too. That was helpful. As for therapy, I looked specifically for persons... Tue, 26 Mar 2013 06:41:05 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10539643-my-friend-jeff#10541751 Hi again Intorment, sounds like Jeff was a good friend and you miss his alot. Yes, years can by but when you loose someone so special to you, that void remains. There are always those moments and occasions when you just wish you could speak to the person and have then back in your life. It's hard to loose someone and I'm sorry you have lost a friend. You wish Jeff would have reached out for help or someone make him get help. It's so sad when a life ends that way. Thinking of you. Rachele... Mon, 11 Mar 2013 15:20:34 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10539345-how-i-leaned-of-my-fathers-passing#10541727 Hi InTorment, I'm sorry for all you have been through in your life and the hard time you have had in grieving your Dad's death and the way you were treated by him and your stepmom. There is much to be angry and hurt about and sure need to talk about it. Sorry the groups were not helpful. Do you have a counselor or therapist to talk to? That has helped me with things in my own life. Want to welcome you to the group. Rachele... Mon, 11 Mar 2013 15:11:33 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10473981-i-had-to-let-my-wonderful-dog-go-2-days-ago#10489561 Oh Sandy I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear companion. I went through the same thing four months ago. I have, today, just come home from hospital where I have been for a week and I still miss my best friend so much; he would normally be on the bed with me keeping me company while I recover. I know how hard it is and how empty your house will feel without his presence. It was so nice of the policeman to be so comforting to you when you were in need. Keep posting to us on here any... Sat, 16 Feb 2013 21:22:13 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10482086-lost-my-little-godbrother#10488736 Hi Lexie, I'm sorry for the loss of your god-brother. Grief does things to families, and everyone is different. Some want to move on with life right away, others want to bond grieve and bond more with the family. I wanted to bond with mine but everyone did their own thing and we didn't get closer but further apart, unfortunately. I'm sorry to hear they are moving. I do hope you can be in touch with them and close. All you can do is try to keep a connection if you can. If not, you know the bond y... Sat, 16 Feb 2013 13:35:30 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bereavement-discussions/general-support/10474099-how-to-cope#10476600 Your welcome. I didn't know how long it would take for me to accept my mom's death either. Some parts of still haven't fully accepted it in times of missing her so and wishing she were alive again. It has to be in your own time. I know the process is painful, scary and lonely. Gentle hugs, Rachele... Mon, 11 Feb 2013 17:32:30 -0800