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05/03/2008 10:10
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Have you though about home schooling,it is not has hard has some people think,and your education should part fund it

let me know your district and Ill see what i can come up with

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05/03/2008 13:47
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I do not believe in home schooling at all. While it may be the best scenario for others, it is not a choice in our family.

I am a former educator myself so it is not the "hard" factor, rather our philosophy.

Thank you for your inquiry.

Each and every day I am working towards a goal for my son. I will let you know what the outcome will be.


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05/04/2008 06:38
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Thank you both for your insight. Does anyone have any thoughts about an all autistic school? At first I thought I didn't want him to go to one because I'd rather put him with typically developing children with the hopes the modeling will be good for him. I was/am concerned that putting him in an autistic school might not give him the peer modeling he needs. These are just thoughts that run through my head and I go back and forth so thank you for letting me think outloud Sharon

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05/04/2008 06:44
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For me personally, I would not put my children in an All Autistic school. I would rather that they have more NT-normal (thanks Shell for the terminology) models than ASD models.

My thought behind that is that if they only have ASD models, they are not being given the chance to see what and how others go about their day. I figure, if they are on the spectrum and have NT models (there are other ASD children in the class as well) then they are going to have all of the input that they need to ultimately make the decision how to do things/deal with the day/.......

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05/04/2008 06:47
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I think it depends on the leveel of function,someone with HFA/AS would not do well in an autistic school where has a lower functiong child would do very well.

where are you,I am sure we can find out something but we need to know where you are.

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05/04/2008 06:59
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I live in Portsmouth NH. Ellis is pretty high functioning. He communicates pretty well but does have a significant speech delay among other delays. He gets very frustrated at times and can throw a pretty good temper tantrum and he is very stubborn I just don't know how to help him learn. He still can't write his name. He doesn't know all his letters or numbers. I would consider this still at a kindergarten level. I want to give him the best possible education. I always wanted to home school but then the social piece wouldn't be there and I wouldn't want to fight with him all day to do his work.

I hadn't thought about having an aide for him that focuses on behavior. He does need some support in that area. What does it mean to "OPEN" my IEP?

We will be having a meeting about placement for next year in a couple weeks.

Thank you. This discussion is really helping to get different views.


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05/04/2008 07:03
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To Open your IEP means that you submit a letter to whomever is the Special Ed representative at your school (in my case, it is the Assistant Principal) and cc. it to your district office.

You state in there what all you want to talk about and why and what you are asking for.

They will call an IEP. You can bring whomever you want to the meeting as long as you write down who they are on the paper you sign stating that you will be there on the date and time specified.

You attend the meeting, discuss what you want and if you don't get what you want you go to mediation.

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05/04/2008 07:17
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i would ask that he be taught life skills as well ,education is not always the best to learn,play and social interaction and communication skills should come before maths english history etc

http://www.ed.gov/parents/landing.jhtml

I would suggest visiting the local schools in your area and asking them what they can offeror if they can recommend

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05/09/2008 19:54
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Thank you. What do you think about a school that doesn't acknowledge a child's diagnosis of autism? My son's case manager doesn't think the diagnosis fits even though his neurologist has written at least 2 letters saying he does and that she recommends he have 5 full days of school all year long. I can barley get 4 weeks during the summer months. I am frustrated about this and don't know what to do about next year. The school for autistic children has only 5 weeks off the whole year.

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05/10/2008 08:49
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What do you mean by case manager?

What educational background does the Case Manager have? If it is anything less than an M.D. who has done extensive testing on your child (as it sounds like the neurologist has) then it is time for a new case manager!

The last thing you need is a person who making the ultimate decision, regarding what services your child will or won't get, doubting the diagnosis. You will have more of an up-hill battle than you already have just because your child is a special needs child.

One thing I will say is that the school will not provide 52 weeks of education to any child. The most you will get is 5 days a week (called an Intensive class here in California) plus the ESY (extended school year). That is all that is mandated by law.

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