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10/04/2007 15:32
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1. Autistic people are so many times afraid of Butterflies... The reason is because their wings when they flap have a very horrible sound and also their wings flap too fast causing too much stimulus... If I am near a butterfly most people would think I'm severely autistic. Things will be in a wreck because I flip out so bad.

2. Not mentioned as much but very much a phobia in some Autistic people is certain letters of the alphabet (the sound especially), numbers and certain punctuation marks in the English language. Some kids will constantly get math prob. wrong and punctuation points taken away, but what lots of people will not think about is "why"--as far as refusing to write the number or punctuation symbol...also some Autistic people get really upset over a color which in this case is more to do with the brightness or what they think of it as referring to a texture because something else that upsets them has that color.

--Think of the conditioning experiment w/ little Albert and the 'white' mouse.

(Autistic people are conditioned very easily)

3. The size and thickness of things have been known to bother lots of people on the spectrum--for some it is big and round things like pots, for others small long things like railing bars...very hard to explain. It is a phobia that affects many autistic people. (there is a great representation of this in 'Silent Fall'...look on my 'autism movies' page and it will be there shortly.

4. Also, fuzzy things really affect the eyes of autistic people and therefore can bother them a lot so bad it becomes a phobia.

5. More coming...

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10/04/2007 18:17
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Interesting. I use a white board and marker to communicate with several of my students when they are approaching a melt down. It is silent and it slows down the communication. One little guy is constantly erasing the periods and the dots above the i's and below the question marks. I was wondering what was up with that! He only does it when he's upset. Now I understand.

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10/04/2007 19:33
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So glad you understand now... Thats why I made my website and have all of this info. that really is not talked about much.

Kris

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10/05/2007 09:11
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Could social interaction, or lack there of, be considered a phobia? Or in adults, should it be more appropriately considered adversive therapy? We try as children to interact and be social, and we fail. We try harder, and we fail. We try harder and harder and harder.... And in the end, we are socially incapable of 'getting the unwritten rules.' Is it a phobia that makes me not want to leave my house, or have a informal conversation, or reaction to negative stimuli?
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10/05/2007 20:16
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From the viewpoint of a non-aspie:

I think the social interaction could most definitely be a phobia. A perfectly rational one. Think about a toddler who can be startled one day by a barking or growling dog. She may be afraid of dogs her entire life and not know why. With the characteristic inability or difficulty in reading social cues or most non-verbal language, you learn at a very young age that social interactions are an ineffective and unpleasant way to communicate. There may be several pleasant experiences, but they do not make as big an impact as the negative. You can learn how to do it properly (or learn how to fake it effectively, but still don't enjoy it. Unpleasant experiences as a young child, combined with more of the same as you get older (along with some really nasty experiences as a teenager), could make anyone fear social interaction.


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10/06/2007 14:17
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Exactly!
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10/20/2007 16:59
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Hi! I would say from being on the spectrum, it is really more over-stimulation... but also its not that uncommon to have a person on the spectrum be diagnosed later on as agoraphobic as well.

Kris

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10/21/2007 10:51
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Hi - tentatively .

What are '' irrational '' to normals might be scary to me .

If I see my safe / known Leica II camera 1933 , I am fine , but if a copy of it from Russia has writing I can't dee'cipher [ pun ] ,especially in cyrillic I get severely anxious ... but if the Russians have falsely engraved it with Leica writing - I am settled !

The joke is that the altered camera is more real to me , than the proper one .

Multiply this by EVERYTHING and you begin to wonder why we don't have MORE '' phobias '' !

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