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02/28/2012 06:12 PM
Torres15
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I am not sure how to do a link but if you have read it you might understand. It is written to help explain an autoimmune disorder (lupus?). In it each daily task uses a spoon, while for the rest of us without that, the same task requires no spoons. Everyone, regardless of health starts out with a certain number of spoons. For those with the autoimmune disease, getting dressed takes a lot of them, while for others, it might take one.

Ok now adapt it to Asperger's. Saying hi to someone, looking at their face (eyes are impossible), answering the phone, etc, all use more spoons for us than for those not on the spectrum.

Now if only I had more spoons.

And if only people could understand. But I guess maybe we all feel that way and wish others could understand.

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02/28/2012 07:39 PM  Top
BlueYoshi
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http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by- christine/the-spoon-theory-written-by-christine-miserandino/

I'm also somebody with a chronic illness (fibromyalgia), so I have the article mentioned above bookmarked into my computer lol.

I think the analogy still does work better for chronic illness over something like Asperger's to the unaware person's mind though. I guess they can visualize someone having a smaller physical stamina bar better than visualizing someone having a smaller social stamina bar. But the analogy can work for both if the person you're explaining this to is receptive to the general concept.

I'm a 20 year old college student with Asperger's and fibromyalgia ...

I'm not a doctor, so please don't treat my advice like it's from a doctor. I just have a lot of experience with this stuff, that's all.
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