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Kittyn1971 Posts: 435
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Ugh. Ok, at least that is what I am having a friggin' anxiety attack about, anyway. I would not put it past that harpy to bug the house to see if I beat the children or hide bodies in the cellar. (ROFL Just pictured that one... hahaha) Anyway, I just have this sinking feeling like she is doing something sneaky like that. She seriously hates me. Left me two messages telling me I'm not good enough for her son, I'm a terrible mother, I'm trailer trash, I'm immature, I dress like a ho, she does not want a mother like me taking care of her grandchildren. First of all, I'm a damn good mother. Got a son that is an honor student, is polite and respectable and loves my weirdness. I have a daughter who is my best friend, is very loving and caring and is one of the best artists I know. Both of them are shocked that someone would say that about me. Apparently, dressing in sweats and a tank top while cleaning in your own house makes you a ho. I am kinda immature, I guess. I know how to have fun.. nothing wrong with that. I know when to act my age and I know when to just let it all out with the kids in goof style. She is evil. Pure and simple and I would not put it past her to invade our privacy like that. Course, now I'm a flipping mess inside and I don't want to tell my fiance what I think because he will think I'm nuts and it will start a fight.  Gonna take some meds and hope for the best... Well, after I give the kids a shower and tuck them in, anyway. First things first. |
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bindiboo Posts: 1271
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You no you are a good person...so don't worry about what others think of you......Just agree with her that will get to her more than fighting with her....I would just "Is that so" Put the ball back in her court she will soon learn that you do not care........Don't stress yourself out about it it is not worth it....  I am not a medical doctor.....My opinion is purely that....I try & give the best advice to help others from my own experiences.......
" We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same."
I don’t know what the key to success is, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.
http://www.facebook.com/bindiboo
Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past,stop planning the future,stop figuring out how we feel,stop deciding what we want,and just see what happens.
Forget the past, it has already happened, worry not about the future, it has yet to come. Concentrate on today, and make every moment count. |
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Kittyn1971 Posts: 435
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Today we have been battling by text, but I am being the rock today. I will survive this match. And, I will do it diplomatically. Muahahahahahaha |
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Kittyn1971 Posts: 435
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Welp, I'm gonna end this tread by saying she won.. she broke us up.. now I have all new anxieties. Yippee... |
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leomed Posts: 341
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What happened? (if you don't want to discuss it here, but still would like to talk, please don't hesitate to PM me)... |
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ExyLexy Posts: 1532
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Same here sweetheart! Pm me if you need to talk or at least one of us. Fight for what you love, Not for what you hate.
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bindiboo Posts: 1271
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She only won if you let her.....Don't let her win...... I am not a medical doctor.....My opinion is purely that....I try & give the best advice to help others from my own experiences.......
" We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same."
I don’t know what the key to success is, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.
http://www.facebook.com/bindiboo
Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past,stop planning the future,stop figuring out how we feel,stop deciding what we want,and just see what happens.
Forget the past, it has already happened, worry not about the future, it has yet to come. Concentrate on today, and make every moment count. |
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Kittyn1971 Posts: 435
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Na. she won. but I'm moving on. it's hard cuz i don't want to move on, but i am. Now if I could just get the anxiety attacks to stop. |
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leomed Posts: 341
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Hi kitty, hang in there, you're a very strong person...What have you tried to make the anxiety go away? Are you by yourself in the house? |
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Kittyn1971 Posts: 435
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No. I'm surrounded by him and his father and brother and kids. It's hard to let go when you are still submersed in the family. I have a date this weekend, tho. Possible roommate. Cross your fingers. |
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