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kGee Posts: 6
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hi, i have depression ocd add and anxiety. my sister has very severe ocd and anxiety and my youngest sister has odd. our family is fucked up in my eyes and seems to be barely getting by. not money wise because that seems to be the only thing going well for us. my sister the one with the severe anxiety has gotten out of bed only 3/16 for the past couple of weeks. she hasn't been able to go to school and if she does go she comes home and cries and listens to this relaxing tape in her room for over 120 times. it upsets and stresses out everyone. i love her to death but its making me more anxious to relapse on cutting which i used to do for over 4 years but haven't in 5 months. and it's also making me more anxious to get drugs. i dont know what to do can someone please help me
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Chanda Posts: 2137
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I have ocd, depression, anxiety, and panic disorder. Hang in there and know Im here to help u in anyway I can. I am not a Doctor, just a person who experiences panic and anxiety and Im here to try to help people and also learn from them also. ;)
Check out my blog about panic and anxiety, I try to write in it daily, This site has helped me. And the Programs on the top, sides, and bottom! NO MORE ANXIETY & PANIC!!
http://paniccure123.blogspot.com
If you ever need me & im not on here, try my yahoo IM- Babygirlluv1978, my myspace is or also www.myspace.com/BabyGirlLuv1978 and facebook under Chanda Miller, I play pogo alot at pogo.com, my name is cdm62108
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*Cast all you anxiety on (God), because he cares for you. I Peter 5:7
*I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.- Phil 4:13
*So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.- Isaiah 41:10
*For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. - Isaiah 41:13
*"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." -Proverbs 3:5-6
*Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.- Psalm 23:4
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bindiboo Posts: 1271
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SO IT DOESN'T HELP HAVING SOME-ONE ELSE IN THE FAMILY WITH THE SAME PROBLEMS??? MAYBE YOU & YOUR SISTER SHOULD SIT DOWN & TALK ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS IT MAY HELP BOTH OF YOU. BEST OF LUCK & HANG IN THERE.....JUST THINK IT CAN ONLY GET BETTER.....XXXXXX  I am not a medical doctor.....My opinion is purely that....I try & give the best advice to help others from my own experiences.......
" We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same."
I don’t know what the key to success is, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.
http://www.facebook.com/bindiboo
Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past,stop planning the future,stop figuring out how we feel,stop deciding what we want,and just see what happens.
Forget the past, it has already happened, worry not about the future, it has yet to come. Concentrate on today, and make every moment count. |
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What is your sister worrying about that makes her so anxious? Is there something going on at school that gives her anxiety or does she have some sort of fear? I have been having a lot of anxiety over certain issues over the past couple of months. I have been trying to do breathing excerises along with a muscle relaxation technique. Talking with a therapists helps too. Having someone there to comfort you instead of barking questions and be unecouraging like my sister does lol helps a lot. |
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kGee Posts: 6
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i just dont know how to ask my parents for therapy because i only went to therapy when they found out i had been cutting two years ago and than they switched me to a psychiatrist who i feel that i can't really talk to. and she does not like leaving home or being away from my mom that's what gets her so nervous and upset. and her and i aren't close enough for me to tell her my problems but i always help her in anyway i can because i love her. otherwise she really has nothing to be fearful of. thank you guys! |
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bindiboo Posts: 1271
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MAYBE GET YOUR SISTER TO JOIN THE SITE AS WELL......SHOW HER HOW HELPFUL & NICE WE ARE HERE......SHE COULD ALSO JOIN THE SELF ESTEEM GROUP A IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS VERYINSECURE LIKE MOST OF US WITH ANXIETY..... I am not a medical doctor.....My opinion is purely that....I try & give the best advice to help others from my own experiences.......
" We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same."
I don’t know what the key to success is, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.
http://www.facebook.com/bindiboo
Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past,stop planning the future,stop figuring out how we feel,stop deciding what we want,and just see what happens.
Forget the past, it has already happened, worry not about the future, it has yet to come. Concentrate on today, and make every moment count. |
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Chanda Posts: 2137
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my mom is starting to have anxiety, we try to help each other, hang in there! I am not a Doctor, just a person who experiences panic and anxiety and Im here to try to help people and also learn from them also. ;)
Check out my blog about panic and anxiety, I try to write in it daily, This site has helped me. And the Programs on the top, sides, and bottom! NO MORE ANXIETY & PANIC!!
http://paniccure123.blogspot.com
If you ever need me & im not on here, try my yahoo IM- Babygirlluv1978, my myspace is or also www.myspace.com/BabyGirlLuv1978 and facebook under Chanda Miller, I play pogo alot at pogo.com, my name is cdm62108
**************************************************
**** I HAVE PICTURES, I LOVE PICS.!!!****
**************************************************
*Cast all you anxiety on (God), because he cares for you. I Peter 5:7
*I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.- Phil 4:13
*So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.- Isaiah 41:10
*For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. - Isaiah 41:13
*"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." -Proverbs 3:5-6
*Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.- Psalm 23:4
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hm68279
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maybe you could tell them that she could benefit a lot from talking to a professional. I started seeing a therapist a couple months ago. Its weird knowing that I'm the only person I know that is seeing one out of my little circle of family and friends lol. But I feel better talking to someone who understands me and gives me good advice to keep me going. One of the ways he has helped me is explaining to me that I need to find a hobby or something to focus on. Its been hard finding one but it encourages me to find something to improve myself and my life. |
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kGee Posts: 6
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yeah my sister sees a therapist i think but definetly a psychiatrist already i just think that they've put her on too many medications and its making it worse |
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dreamsofinsomnia Posts: 1719
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my mother was on like 12 meds at one point and acted overmedicated and had health complications i think to many meds can be worse then no meds Please, please forgive me,
But I won't be home again.
Maybe someday you'll look up,
And, barely conscious, you'll say to no one:
"Isn't something missing?"
You won't cry for my absence, I know -
You forgot me long ago.
Am I that unimportant...?
Am I so insignificant...?
Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?
Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't someone missing me?
Please, please forgive me,
But I won't be home again.
I know what you do to yourself,
I breathe deep and cry out:
"Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?"
Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't someone missing me?
And if I bleed, I'll bleed,
Knowing you don't care.
And if I sleep just to dream of you
And wake without you there,
Isn't something missing?
Isn't something...
Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?
contact me on yahoo messenger under jennyleuchtman |
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