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04/04/2009 05:12 AM
Snoopers2009
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For so many years now, I have had pain ranging from annoying to intolerable in my shoulders and neck. Years ago, my doctor told me that women tend to carry their stress in their shoulders... sort of pulling them upwards in an unconscious gesture.

When I'm anxious (um, a lot? lol), my neck KILLS me... there are knots in the tops of my shoulders where the muscles bunch up.

Does anyone else have this lovely side effect from having constant anxiety? What do you do about it? Please don't tell me to take a walk because I may just throw something if that suggestion is offered to me again about much of anything. lol

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04/05/2009 06:21 AM  Top
greenguitar28
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Gabapentin (Neurontin) 100mg 2x dailyHydroxyzine (Atarax) 10mg as needed for moderate anxietyAlprazolam (Xanax) 1mg/0.5mg as needed for severe anxiety/panic attacks

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04/05/2009 10:50 PM  Top
Chanda
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Snoopers2009, YES, I totally get this and then it gives me a awful headache, ugh. I take advil sometimes even, or I try to stretch my neck and back out, but that only usually helps for a sec., Ive even put the heating pad on. Im trying to figure out how to deal with this too. I go to the chiro. practor and that helps for a day or two, but then its back to aching. Hang in there and let me know if u find out anything that helps.

Green, thanks for the link, I will check it out.

I am not a Doctor, just a person who experiences panic and anxiety and Im here to try to help people and also learn from them also. ;)

Check out my blog about panic and anxiety, I try to write in it daily, This site has helped me. And the Programs on the top, sides, and bottom! NO MORE ANXIETY & PANIC!!
http://paniccure123.blogspot.com
If you ever need me & im not on here, try my yahoo IM- Babygirlluv1978, my myspace is or also www.myspace.com/BabyGirlLuv1978 and facebook under Chanda Miller, I play pogo alot at pogo.com, my name is cdm62108
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*Cast all you anxiety on (God), because he cares for you. I Peter 5:7
*I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.- Phil 4:13
*So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.- Isaiah 41:10
*For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. - Isaiah 41:13
*"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." -Proverbs 3:5-6
*Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.- Psalm 23:4
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04/06/2009 08:00 AM  Top
Snoopers2009
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Thanks, green... I just read the article and also sent it to my aunt who is having TRULY severe issues with this right now - Her head is at a constant angle from the pain. They've even tried botox and that had no effect.

Chanda --- I actually *do* have something that helps me a lot when I bother to do it. I have a homedics back massager... One of those old heavy ones... and it does a miraculous job of relaxing the muscles and increasing blood flow. It's better if someone else does it for you but I've become something of a pro at getting all the areas myself. The vibrations *do* take some getting used to but if you'll get past that, I think you'll find that one of the heavy-duty massagers are better than the light ones everyone seems to buy now. The weight helps so you don't have to use your own strength to press down when you're doing yourself. Pardon the pun. lol

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04/06/2009 08:05 AM  Top
Snoopers2009
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http://www.homedics.com/products/massage/handheld-massagers/ therapist-select-percussion-massager-with-heat.html <<--- Here's the closet thing I've found by them to what I have now. There's another one for $30 and I'm not sure what the price difference is.
Bipolar Disorder
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04/06/2009 09:31 AM  Top
dreamsofinsomnia
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i have the same problem when i am upset it seems that my neck and between my shoulder blades just kills. I feel for you. I take lots of warm baths and sleep with an electric matress pad, you heard me not a electric blanket but matress pad. My mother and law gave it to me and it works great
Please, please forgive me,
But I won't be home again.
Maybe someday you'll look up,
And, barely conscious, you'll say to no one:
"Isn't something missing?"

You won't cry for my absence, I know -
You forgot me long ago.
Am I that unimportant...?
Am I so insignificant...?
Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?

Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't someone missing me?

Please, please forgive me,
But I won't be home again.
I know what you do to yourself,
I breathe deep and cry out:
"Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?"

Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't someone missing me?

And if I bleed, I'll bleed,
Knowing you don't care.
And if I sleep just to dream of you
And wake without you there,
Isn't something missing?
Isn't something...

Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?



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04/06/2009 09:41 AM  Top
Chanda
Chanda  
Posts: 2137
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Thanks Snoopers, I have actually tried them before and it felt like it hurt some, but then when I got use to it, it was like ok, thats the spot, my parents actually have 2 kinds of them my brother gave them, so I will have to see which one will work best for me. My hubby does a good job when he wants to give a back massage, but he doesnt want to 24/7 lol, thanks!
I am not a Doctor, just a person who experiences panic and anxiety and Im here to try to help people and also learn from them also. ;)

Check out my blog about panic and anxiety, I try to write in it daily, This site has helped me. And the Programs on the top, sides, and bottom! NO MORE ANXIETY & PANIC!!
http://paniccure123.blogspot.com
If you ever need me & im not on here, try my yahoo IM- Babygirlluv1978, my myspace is or also www.myspace.com/BabyGirlLuv1978 and facebook under Chanda Miller, I play pogo alot at pogo.com, my name is cdm62108
**************************************************
**** I HAVE PICTURES, I LOVE PICS.!!!****
**************************************************
*Cast all you anxiety on (God), because he cares for you. I Peter 5:7
*I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.- Phil 4:13
*So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.- Isaiah 41:10
*For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. - Isaiah 41:13
*"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." -Proverbs 3:5-6
*Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.- Psalm 23:4
[IMG]http://i36.tinypic.com/2nqquc5.jpg[/IMG]
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