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07/08/2012 12:16 PM
damselndistress
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I need to type this 50 times and if I get too triggered just leave and go somewhere!

The pastor who married us lives across the street and is having his retirement party today.

This happens once in a lifetime,

My husband is out there working on a motorcycle and revving the engine,

I went out after he did not stop and confronted him, he refused to look up at me said relax. He knew why I was there I didn't have to say a word.

He said relax!

Oh I knew we were not neighborhood material???

Well he isn't anyway with all levels of rudeness.

If he starts in again I am leaving,

I cannot stand to be here and stand by and watch this and do nothing.

I'm gonna come right out of my skin!

1 more day of school-yipee!
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07/09/2012 01:42 PM  Top
jstsIm
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Honey! go take a shower! Put on something pretty! Take your neighbor a card or pick some flowers! Walk right over there, while your not so better half watches, and wish your neighbors a wonderful retirement!

Don't let his rude actions take away the pleasure you can share with your neighbor! Believe me, your pastor has seen and dealt with many people and situations. He will know where your heart is!


07/09/2012 04:21 PM  Top
damselndistress
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Good advice as usual Reba!Smile

Post edited by: damselndistress, at: 07/09/2012 04:21 PM

1 more day of school-yipee!

07/09/2012 09:17 PM  Top
jstsIm
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Baby, how I wish that I could take all the tough stuff that comes your way! Life just isn't like that! Even with our own families, our own spouses, our own children, sometimes all we can do is back up and let them make mistakes and choose their own path! We would like to tell them our stories, all of the things we have been thru, all the mistakes we've made, all of the guilt and regrets that we would undo if we could. And in telling them, we hope that they learn life lessons so they don't make the same mistakes, get tangled in the same webs, or have their tender hearts broken...but they cannot learn those things without their own experiences!!

Even being an asshole, is something we all have to experience being!

You are amazing! Brilliant, resourseful, and clever! You can out think him, and be gracious to others, he'll learn in time! LOL

BIG HUG!

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