Anger Management Support Group

I'm not sure what I would call it...for my husband...utter Disgust..cant stand the fact..he treats me like its all my responsibility to make sure all the bills are paid...and he sits all day smoking cigarettes and drinking his frickin beer...I want to throw him out so bad , I can taste it..I think there is a fine line between hate and love..I'm ready to break it..or my spirit will soon be gone..i'm really angry and so confused as to why..???

What in the hell did I do to deserve this miserable life..I'm crushed and hurt to know end..all hope is lost for my marriage..I tried to fix over and over again..I give up..he wins..he can live in his misery..I dont f'in care anymore.....it matters not...just a vent..Golden Dove..a name someone who once cared about me and I cared so much back...she gave to me..my aka Golden Dove..

vent over

Honey, you can only fix you, you can't force someone else to change! My heart goes out to you and my prayers too!

Past the Sky,

Reba

Thank you my sweet friend..hoping my day off is better today..just got home from a 24hr shift..back tomorrow..I just want him to seriously get a job..about ready to leave him

Want to be room mates..LOL..I bet we would do well together with a 2 bedroom-2 bathroom apt very well...dreaming is nice...calms me down...

many hugs to all

patty

Hi,

I am new to the group. I have had some anger issues all of my life. I would not tolerate this either. If he was doing something productive like taking a class, or volunteering, maybe attending AA things may improve. You are blaming you as he is for a behavior that is completely destructive. The relationship has hope if he takes the steps to help himself. I would reach out for a rehab facility. Maybe I am no help, alcohol definitely sends people to a negative place.

Thanks Capecod

I am at my wits end now..looking for rooms to rent. He would never go to AA. He is happy this way..tho my son and I are totally fed up..no way out...but OUT..

Patty